摘要:很多人总是将男人的活分和未来的生活联系在一起,其实男人活分最后只能是女人辛苦!不是每一个人都能够下海挣大钱死在海里或者在海里半死不活的人大有人在。老公太内向的婚姻应该怎么去维持才可以呢?老公太内向的婚姻怎么维持Q:我今

很多人一直将男人的活分和将来的生活联络在一起,实际上男人活分最终只有是女性艰辛!并不是每一个人都可以下海赚大钱死在海中或是在海中不死不活的人扪心自问。丈夫太内向的婚姻生活应当如何去保持才能够呢?

丈夫太内向的婚姻生活如何保持丈夫太内向的婚姻生活如何保持

Q:

我今年25周岁,我比我男朋友大2岁。毕业后到现在快2年了,大学毕业大半年后谈的,到现在一年多了,彼此之间没有什么大分歧,他性情有点儿内向,有哪些不太想要告诉我那麼清晰。

为人处事而言较为娇嫩,我爸爸妈妈看了便说要非得找优势便是老实巴交,有点儿老实巴交过度。

其次便是金钱问题一直变成彼此之间的拦路虎。家中一直不同意,他们家是乡村的在城内沒有房子,说成要买,但是一直有什么问题买不上房子。他也有个侄子硕士毕业早已工作中。

我是等了这么多年闹了很数次提出分手,可是我俩在一个企业老碰面,一直吵吵闹闹。

分的情况下不舒服,在一起了又感觉平淡无奇。每天窝在那一个小企业全是出任党员干部沒有很大的提高和发展沒有来过哪些地方。

现如今我忘不掉有一部分是不甘那么多付诸东流,一部分是对他是有情感的,一部分是他太不成熟了,许多情况下我还感觉他是个小孩,他担负不上那麼工作压力。尽管他很想要去更改,他也很难过。我确实手足无措了。

A:

你太多地夸大其词了大家的难题。

大家都是有工作中都是有薪水全是科级干部,只需历经累积,将来的生活没什么难题。

不太可能全部的人完婚时都是有房子都是会有宽裕的生活。生活许多情况下必须夫妻俩根据工作中慢慢的来更改。

换句话说生活必须自身去更改而不是爸爸妈妈完婚以前就给大家分配好一切。(感情问题资询可加老师\/信:)

这一男孩儿家中虽在农村可是其爸爸和哥哥都算能够,换句话说男性家中还好。

这一男孩儿性情内向可是学习培训和工作中都还行。从这一视角来看没什么能够苛刻的。我乃至想说你需要好好珍惜。

很多人一直将男人的活分和将来的生活联络在一起,实际上男人活分最终只有是女性艰辛!并不是每一个人都可以下海赚大钱,死在海中或是在海中不死不活的人扪心自问。

或许你能说他沒有下海如何可以了解他不好?想对你说的是等他真下海了,再想成功就晚了。

普普通通的生活才算是真正的。

钱和房子都并不是生活的所有,生活真正实际意义是可以白头偕老恩爱,好好地陪护老人教育小孩。

真正的生活才算是真实的生活,婚姻生活仅仅在其中的一部分而不是所有。

大家工作中非常好,这一男孩儿非常好。好好地白头偕老普普通通的生活,爱惜早已有着的一切。

Many people have been linking men's work with their future life. In fact, men's work is only women's work in the end! Not everyone can go to the sea to make a lot of money. People who die or live in the sea ask themselves. How to maintain the husband's introverted marriage life?

How to maintain the husband's introverted marriage life

Q:

I'm 25 years old. I'm 2 years older than my boyfriend. It's almost two years since I graduated. I talked about it half a year after I graduated from university. Now it's more than a year. There's no big difference between them. He's a little introverted. What's not clear to me.

In terms of dealing with people, they are more delicate. My parents said that if they had to find an advantage, they would be honest. They were a little too honest.

The second is that the money problem has always become a roadblock between each other. My family has always disagreed. They live in the countryside and have no house in the city. They say they want to buy a house, but there are always some problems and they can't buy a house. He also has a nephew who graduated with a master's degree and is already working.

I've been waiting for so many years. I've made a lot of breakups, but we always meet in an enterprise, and we've been making a lot of noise.

I'm not comfortable when I'm with you, but I feel ordinary when I'm together. Every day in that small enterprise, all Party members and cadres have not been greatly improved and developed, and they have never been to any place.

Now I can't forget that some of them are unwilling to go to waste, some of them have feelings for him, and some of them are too immature. In many cases, I still feel that he is a child and he can't bear the pressure of work. As much as he wanted to change it, he was sad. I'm really at a loss.

A:

You exaggerate too much. It's a big problem.

All of us have jobs and salaries. All of us are section level cadres. We only need to go through accumulation, and there will be no problems in our future life.

It's unlikely that all of them will have a house when they get married, and they will have a comfortable life. In many cases, life must be changed slowly by husband and wife according to their work.

In other words, life has to be changed by itself instead of being assigned everything before mom and dad get married. (Please add teacher's letter for emotional questions)

Although the boy's family is in the countryside, his father and brother can do it. In other words, the male family is OK.

The boy is introverted, but he is OK in study, training and work. From this perspective, nothing can be harsh. I even want to say that you need to cherish it.

Many people have been linking men's work with their future life. In fact, men's work is only women's work in the end! Not everyone can go to the sea to make a lot of money. People who die or live in the sea ask themselves.

Maybe you can say that he didn't go to the sea, how can you understand his bad? What I want to tell you is that when he really goes to sea, it will be too late to think about success.

Ordinary life is real.

Money and house are not all of life. The real meaning of life is to love and care for the old and educate the children.

Real life is real life. Marriage is only a part of it, not all of it.

Everyone is very good at work. This boy is very good. Take good care of your ordinary life and cherish what you already have.