Nowadays, with the development of society, it's very common for boys to cheat in marriage. So the question is, why can't men cheat? I have the reason why men can't change after cheating. Let's take a look.
Why can't a man forget Xiao San after cheating
1. They are tired of the ordinary life
Generally in the seven-year marriage itch, or after a period of time, they have already experienced in the initial passion and violent start, the day gradually return to peace. Marriage is the first mock exam. Its essence is exactly the two people's relaxed life, the pity is stalemate, the hardships and dangers are always filled with difficulties and the marriage that is always permeated with enthusiasm is very few. However, when their enthusiasm gradually faded and they gradually returned to the essence of marriage, they felt bored and wanted to do something else to get rid of the short board and make their life more and more diverse again. At this time, they usually go astray.
2. Pursuit of perfection, stimulation, no temptation
Adults usually have another sign, that is, they are determined on the basis. At this time, although they are not able to indulge in their youth, they have attractive financial influence. Infidelity is usually not a one-way affair, it's just a matter of two people. The characteristics of adults usually attract some women who want to take advantage or like Uncle type. Therefore, at this time, the flat and dull life suddenly breaks into a fresh and energetic element. If the self-control ability is not firm, infidelity is very easy to occur. In addition, we should note that if a middle-aged man strips out the word "middle-aged and old", his essence is also male. If you can so casually refuse impetuous, it is very likely that there will not be so many men's infidelity malignant events.
3. There are problems in the relationship, or a sense of trust
Boys can not forget the third child, the direct reason depends on the emotional life between husband and wife, there are problems, of course, there are external reasons, for example, men in the third child who find a wife who does not have a point, and this is deeply moved by their own fuse. When a man is seduced by the outside, he will do a series of unbearable and sad stupid things.
Secondly, men find a sense of trust in Xiao San. His wife's arrogance and insolence and his dislike of dressing up make him feel distressed and bored, so they will choose to avoid. Xiao San's understanding not only soothes their hearts, but also takes their physiology into consideration.
What should a man do if he's cheating
First, dissuade or end the tension between couples. Many people say that when I found out that my husband had cheated, I would cry, make trouble and hang myself. Then I would go to his enterprise and make trouble, then my mother-in-law would cry and make a lot of noise, and then my mother-in-law's family would complain. Some also asked private detectives to investigate the direct evidence of his cheating. This kind of practice will make the relationship between husband and wife more vicious, and sometimes cause secondary harm, so the first step is to end the tension between husband and wife.
Second, release and lead to negative emotions. If you know your lover's infidelity, it will cause great trauma to you. At that time, your negative emotions, work stress and trauma are very serious. Therefore, you must release it, and there must be technical professionals to guide you. Only by releasing this kind of mentality and negative energy can you have the energy to carry out the next step.
Third, we should clean up the desolation in our marriage and see what happens in it. You don't know what's going on in your marriage without looking at it. You only see your husband cheating, but you don't see why he is cheating. Therefore, we need to clear up everyone's marriage, clear up the desolation in the marriage, and then do other things.
The reason for men's infidelity is that it can't be changed. A large number of men's infidelity contents concern our emotional network