Confession is simple and easy, it is difficult to say, and it is difficult to succeed in incorrect expression. So, how to make it clear to girls is not embarrassing? It is very important to choose the right way. Xiaobai, a student of Xiaoyao, at first, like most of his friends, he was refused every invitation. Even if the girl agreed, he was stood up on the day of the appointment. Seeing that he has run four, friends, colleagues and even children around him, Xiaobai doesn't want to work alone alone, and doesn't want to see his parents with gray hair still worry about himself. So we found out, hoping to solve the single problem through systematic learning. After getting to know a girl, most of the partners feel that they can invite a girl as long as they have known each other for a long time and chatting many times. At the beginning, Xiaobai, like most single boys, didn't know how to invite. But in fact, the success of dating a girl has little to do with the length of time you've known each other. If a girl has a high liking for you, no matter what way you ask her, she will agree. But if you haven't established a good attraction, you are eager to ask her out, which will only expose your sense of need and make the girls disgusted. When a girl is not very interested in us, the best way is to wait for her interest to appear. If you don't know how to make a Girl promise your invitation, you should have a good look at this article.
1、 Build attraction before you invite
1. Create common ground and increase familiarity
Most girls don't agree to an invitation just because a boy is courteous to her, let alone a stranger. If you and the girl still stay at the stage of just knowing each other, you will be rejected by the girl. Xiaobai made this mistake and was often rejected by the girl. Can invite the relationship, at least should be in the friend above. So how to quickly increase the familiarity and upgrade the relationship is very important. In order to quickly increase the sense of familiarity, Xiaoyao asked Xiaobai to create more common ground when chatting with girls. This common ground, may be to have the same hobby, likes the same star, may also be lives in the same place and so on. Just imagine that you meet a person in a foreign country. After chatting, you suddenly find that she is your hometown. Is it right that you have a cordial feeling in a moment? Similarly, when you say "I am also" and "I like it very much" in the chat, you can also give the girl a kind feeling to a certain extent. In the chat, the more resonance points you can have with girls, the higher the quality of the chat, the easier it is for girls to feel that they are in tune with you, and the more they look forward to further development with you.
2. Emotional resonance, showing value
Every girl is eager to have someone who can understand themselves. If you can give her emotional resonance, it's easy to make her fall in love with you. If you want to make a girl remember you and like you, you need to constantly stir up her inner emotions when chatting. Whether it is joyful or sad, it can make her deeply impressed. Chat in the "push-pull" small skills, is to use a way in and out, so that girls have a large range of emotional fluctuations. If you are in a relationship, you will only try your best to attack, and most of the girls will want to escape more. To open the distance is to better enter her heart. In order to get the attention of the girls, some friends try their best to praise the girls, but they always fail to achieve the desired effect. But blindly praise will only let her mood have a moment of upsurge, after praise, still won't give her a special impression. What's more, excessive praise will make the girl feel that you have an intention to her, and if you are not careful, she will be on guard against you.
2、 How to invite, the girl won't refuse
If you want to advance your relationship and change from a stranger to a couple, you can't just talk. Dating is a necessary part. But before you have a formal date with a girl, you have to make a successful appointment with her. Fuzzy invitation can help you hide your needs and test her attitude. If you are chatting about food, how would you date a girl? I believe that most of the partners have such an appointment: "come out for dinner tomorrow", "are you free later? Go to Haidilao" Girls do not have a psychological preparation, suddenly ask her, will let her no sense of security. Even if I have a good feeling for you, I will subconsciously refuse you. But if you make a vague invitation first, you can avoid this kind of situation. For example: if you are talking about food, you can say, "recently, a new Japanese food restaurant has been opened on Zhongshan Road. It is said that it is very good. If you have a chance, you can try it together." Try to test her attitude with an invitation whose time or place is not clear, because it is not very formal. Even if it is rejected, it will not cause embarrassment. Are you tired of chatting with girls? Do you want to end up with nothing every time you date a girl? Do you want to improve yourself and make yourself better? These problems may be difficult for you who have no love experience. There is no shortcut to love, but we can accumulate experience by learning. Contact with girls, this is a simple and sweet thing, do not because of no experience, and turn it into a trouble. Maybe in love, you will encounter all kinds of problems: chatting, dating, upgrading relationship, confessing and so on.
How to make a confession with a girl is not embarrassing? Confession needs skills. If you master the skills, it will be much easier. From low threshold to high threshold to express feelings, at the same time, induce sister to express the same degree of feeling with you. If sister successfully expresses the feeling synchronous with you, you can get along with each other further. Both sides express their good feelings, which is a contractual relationship. Sister seldom takes the initiative to destroy this contractual relationship. In addition, when a sister expresses a good feeling, it is also a fugue, which is easy to become her habitual behavior, and the follow-up development will be more smooth. If you have any questions in this regard, please contact us and let the Tutor guide you one-on-one to make you successful Get a girl.