摘要:相亲是两个陌生人互相认识交流的过程,如果彼此有感觉就会考虑发展关系。但是通过相亲认识的人毕竟感情基础比较薄弱,所以很多人都不知道怎么开始恋爱。要怎样做才能和相亲的对象快速进入恋爱状态呢?大家好,我是倾心团队高级导师王澜,专注情感教育十几年,主要为兄弟解决以下问题:挽回女友、狙击真命、婚姻修复、如何聊天

相亲是两个陌生人互相认识交流的过程,如果彼此有感觉就会考虑发展关系。但是通过相亲认识的人毕竟感情基础比较薄弱,所以很多人都不知道怎么开始恋爱。要怎样做才能和相亲的对象快速进入恋爱状态呢?大家好,我是倾心团队高级导师王澜,专注情感教育十几年,主要为兄弟解决以下问题:挽回女友、狙击真命、婚姻修复、如何聊天。用真实的案例教给大家实战挽回真爱的方法。是平台入驻时间长,成功率高,好评率高的团队,我们的私人订制课程质量高,服务贴心,教你相亲多久确定关系,为兄弟们的爱情保驾护航。

女性对于相亲的观点/想法

总体准则

男士的穿着打扮,影响女生对男生的整体评判;谈吐决定女生对你深度、内涵的判断;维稳的气质,不猥琐,更令女生认可;有所保留,不完全发表自己的观点,让对方对你有考虑的空间。

女生面对相亲时,内心是矛盾的

相亲女孩的心里其实是非常复杂的,因为一个女孩达到了相亲的程度,也许她在某一方面是比较优秀的,但是可能也有一些不足的地方,所以才导致了女孩需要去相亲。也许相亲的女孩本来就不太想要结婚,只是应着长辈的要求去完成这一项相亲的任务。

所以这样的女孩,她可能比较具有个性,而且她的经济实力也非常的充足,所以可能相亲的女孩,她是抱着一种多尝试一下的心理去完成这一次相亲。也许她的内心还是希望能够找到一个与自己一起走下去,完成一辈子的人,但是可能并不容易,所以女孩会保持着一种比较平和的心态,多尝试着去相亲。所以在面对女生表现的并不热情的情况下不要担心她对你是反感的,也许她只是在衡量而已,只要自己不出现大的错误,你们的机会还是很多的。

女生喜欢的话题

无论女生对于另一半的要求有多高,但是谦卑有礼永远是基本准则。在给营造了自己是一个温和有礼貌的人之后在进行有效的沟通或者信息挖掘,更能让女生放轻松。大多部分女生喜欢男生去聊自己感兴趣的话题,但是一个男人聊太过女性的话题又会被对方嗤之以鼻,所以选择中立的话题尤为重要,一般见面,都会是男生早到等待女生一小段时间,在到达以后,可以对女生说上这么一句话,化解尴尬:

“这个点有点堵车,快喝点水休息一下”刚开始用符合现状的话题破冰,随后的聊天不要直接利用对方朋友圈最近所发生的事情直接聊,太过直接尴尬没有缓冲的空间,如果没有利用好,还给对方一种“窥探生活”的感觉。如果你面对自己喜欢的女孩儿不知所措,或者又面临着难以解决的情感痛苦,又不甘心错过对方。想狙击、想挽回,让她心甘情愿的和你走在一起,点击#微信#免费获取一次与导师一对一咨询机会。导师会分析后告诉你成功的几率以及后续的操作步骤,并给予适合你的课程及服务建议。详细学习资料可参照导师朋友圈。

相亲-具体攻略

找到共同话题和语言。

想和相亲目标快速打破僵局进入状态,你就要和相亲的对象迅速找到共同话题和语言。如果你们根本聊不到一块去,那么也就是说你根本不知道对方想要什么那你怎么向对方释放感情信号呢? 在正式见面之前尽可能多的了解相亲目标的喜好,投其所好,找准你们之间的共同点和差异性。

多聊对方真正感兴趣的话题:如果她喜欢看剧,你就可以和对方聊聊最近的热播剧/电影;如果她喜欢旅游,你就可以多和对方讲你去过的一些美好地方。当聊到对方感兴趣并且擅长的话题时,积极性就被调动起来了,这个时候让她多说,你多听从而分析女生内心潜意识,不要打断女生的讲话是男人素养的体现。

 如果你也缺乏和女生的两性沟通技巧,将对方越推越远;不理解女生的思维方式,不懂女生的说话行为;以及不擅长去解决彼此之间的情感矛盾。想狙击、想挽回,让她心甘情愿的和你走在一起,点击#微信#免费获取一次与导师一对一咨询机会。导师会分析后告诉你成功的几率以及后续的操作步骤,并给予适合你的课程及服务建议。详细学习资料可参照导师朋友圈。

行为举止得体大方不猥琐

相亲总是会伴随一些金钱的支出,我还是建议男性兄弟做主动付款的那个人,在大部分人眼中,第一次约会让女人买单的男人被严重诟病。不要等着相亲的对象掏钱买单,虽然她嘴上不说什么但是心里肯定会将你列入黑名单。从此,她再也不会和你来往。除非有女生非常介意你付款,坚持AA或者她付款,那就同意对方的想法,再从其他地方补偿找回平等感。所以,男人在相亲目标面前一定要表现得慷慨大方,不要斤斤计较小气自私。尤其金钱上边的精打细算,会把女孩吓跑的。

和相亲目标保持密切联系

有很多男性由于相亲时女生表现的并不热情或者对自己的表现并不自信,所以相亲结束后不敢主动和对方联系。但往往相亲完以后不及时联系就会加剧你们陌生感的消失,女生还会认为“不理我是没看上我的信号”,所以联系不一定死,不联系一定会死。

加强和相亲目标见面的频率保持密切联系,也就是说,在相亲结束以后就要为下一次约会奠定基础,就算非常简单的一句话也可以让女生心理有打算。比如:“下一次带你去一家更好的...”,“那我们下一次去你说的...”想方设法创造机会和对方单独相处,如果你和相亲目标不及时联系那么你们的感情自然无法继续下去。对于相亲目标保持正常的主动出击,主动约对方出来,不要对她太过冷漠。

在约会中不断升级关系

聊天是感情的稳定,约会时感情的升级。当对方经常可以见到你,有触手可及的距离感时,你们彼此之间的熟络度也在慢慢升级。随着约会次数的不断增加,可以适当的添加“深度话题”和“肢体接触”测试对方对你的接受度。“深度话题”:对于感情的看法、另一半的要求、情感史、对你的看法“肢体接触”:多发生在不经意间才能不被女生敏锐察觉,比如过马路上牵手,上电梯时拦护。

这些动作测试女生的敏感度,当对方对这些行为都可以表示接受时,说明她对你这个人是认可的,并且是模棱两可的把你当成自己的男朋友,你只需要更主动一些就可以将对方据为己有。如果你也有情感问题,并且不知道不把握如何抉择时,专业的倾心团队可以帮助你,点击添加专业情感导师,我们会根据你的实际情况为你量身定制最合适你的方案。我是倾心团队高级导师王澜,我可以从你感情中寻找出最核心问题所在,帮助你对症下药,在最短的时间内有效地解决自己的情感问题,教你相亲多久确定关系,只要你需要解决问题,我们就在。

Blind date is a process in which two strangers get to know and communicate with each other. If they have feelings for each other, they will consider developing a relationship. But people who know each other through blind date have a weak emotional foundation, so many people don't know how to start falling in love. How to do and blind date object quickly into love state? Hello, everyone. I'm Wang Lan, a senior tutor of the dedicated team. I've been focusing on emotional education for more than ten years. I've mainly solved the following problems for my brothers: recovering my girlfriend, sniping my real life, repairing my marriage, and how to chat. Use real cases to teach you how to save your true love. It's a team with long time, high success rate and high praise rate. Our private customized courses are of high quality and intimate service. We teach you how long to go on a blind date, determine the relationship, and escort the love of brothers.

Women's views / thoughts on blind date

General criteria

Men's dress affects girls' overall judgment of boys; conversation determines girls' judgment of your depth and connotation; the temperament of maintaining stability, not obscenity, makes girls approve; some reservation, not fully express their own views, let the other party have space to consider you.

Girls face blind date, the heart is contradictory

Blind date girl's heart is actually very complex, because a girl has reached the level of blind date, maybe she is better in a certain aspect, but there may also be some shortcomings, so that the girl needs to go to blind date. Maybe the girl on a blind date didn't want to get married at all. She just finished the task of blind date at the request of her elders.

So such a girl, she may have more personality, and her financial strength is also very sufficient, so the girl who may go on a blind date, she is holding a kind of more try psychology to complete this blind date. Maybe her heart still hopes to find a person who can go on with her and complete her life, but it may not be easy, so the girl will keep a more peaceful attitude and try to go on a blind date. So in the face of the girl's performance is not enthusiastic, don't worry that she is disgusted with you, maybe she is just measuring it, as long as you don't make big mistakes, you still have a lot of opportunities.

Girls' favorite topic

No matter how high the requirements of girls for the other half, but humility is always the basic rule. After creating a gentle and polite person, effective communication or information mining can make girls more relaxed. Most girls like boys to talk about topics they are interested in, but if a man talks too much about women, he will be sneered at by the other party. Therefore, it is particularly important to choose a neutral topic. Generally, when meeting, the boy will arrive early and wait for the girl for a short time. After arriving, he can say this to the girl to resolve the embarrassment

"It's a bit of a traffic jam at this point. Drink some water and have a rest." at the beginning, break the ice with a topic that conforms to the current situation. In the subsequent chat, don't directly use what happened in the other party's circle of friends. It's too direct and embarrassing. There's no buffer space. If you don't make good use of it, it will give the opposite party a feeling of "spying on life". If you are at a loss in the face of the girl you like, or you are faced with the emotional pain that is difficult to solve, and you are not willing to miss each other. Want to snipe, want to recover, let her go with you willingly, click wechat to get a free one-on-one consultation opportunity with the tutor. The tutor will analyze and tell you the probability of success and the follow-up operation steps, and give suggestions for your courses and services. For detailed learning materials, please refer to the tutor's circle of friends.

Blind date - specific strategy

Find common topics and language.

If you want to break the deadlock with the blind date target quickly, you need to find common topics and language with the blind date target quickly. If you can't get together at all, that is to say, you don't know what the other person wants. How can you send out emotional signals to the other person? Before the formal meeting, learn as much as possible about the preferences of the blind date target, and find out the similarities and differences between you.

Talk more about the topics that the other person is really interested in: if she likes watching dramas, you can talk about the latest popular dramas / movies; if she likes traveling, you can talk more about some beautiful places you have been to. When we talk about the topics that the other party is interested in and good at, the enthusiasm will be aroused. At this time, let her say more and listen more, so as to analyze the inner subconsciousness of girls. Don't interrupt the girls' speech, which is the embodiment of men's quality.

If you also lack the communication skills with girls, you will push each other further and further; you don't understand girls' way of thinking, don't understand girls' speaking behavior; and you are not good at solving each other's emotional conflicts. Want to snipe, want to recover, let her go with you willingly, click wechat to get a free one-on-one consultation opportunity with the tutor. The tutor will analyze and tell you the probability of success and the follow-up operation steps, and give suggestions for your courses and services. For detailed learning materials, please refer to the tutor's circle of friends.

Behave decently and generously, not obscenely

Blind date is always accompanied by some money expenditure. I still suggest that male brothers take the initiative to pay. In most people's eyes, men who let women pay for their first date are severely criticized. Don't wait for the blind date to pay. Although she doesn't say anything, she will definitely blacklist you in her heart. From then on, she will never associate with you again. Unless a girl really cares about your payment, insists on AA or her payment, agree with the other party's idea, and then get back the sense of equality from other places. Therefore, the man must be generous in front of the blind date target, don't be stingy and selfish. Especially the careful calculation of money will scare the girl away.

Keep in touch with your blind date goals

There are many men who dare not take the initiative to contact each other after a blind date because the girls are not enthusiastic or confident about their performance. But often after a blind date, if you don't get in touch in time, it will aggravate the disappearance of your strangeness. Girls will think that "ignoring me is not a sign that they don't like me", so contact doesn't necessarily die. If you don't get in touch, you will die.

In other words, after the blind date is over, it is necessary to lay the foundation for the next date. Even a very simple sentence can also make the girl have a mental plan. For example: "next time I'll take you to a better...", "next time we'll go to what you said..." try to create opportunities to get along with each other alone. If you don't get in touch with your blind date target in time, your relationship will not continue. For the blind date target to maintain the normal initiative, take the initiative to ask each other out, do not be too indifferent to her.

Escalate relationships on a date

Chatting is the stability of a relationship and the escalation of a relationship during a date. When the other party can see you often and have a sense of distance within reach, your familiarity with each other is gradually upgrading. With the increasing number of dating, you can add "deep topic" and "physical contact" appropriately to test the other party's acceptance of you. "Deep topics": opinions on feelings, requirements of the other half, emotional history, opinions on you "physical contact": most of them happen inadvertently so that they can not be keenly noticed by girls, such as holding hands on the road and blocking when they get on the elevator.

These actions test a girl's sensitivity. When the other party can accept these behaviors, it shows that she is approbate to you and ambivalent. She regards you as her boyfriend. You just need to be more active to take the other party for your own. If you also have emotional problems and don't know how to make a decision, the professional team can help you. Click add professional emotional tutor, and we will tailor the most suitable scheme for you according to your actual situation. I'm Wang Lan, a senior tutor of the dedicated team. I can find out the most core problem from your feelings, help you suit the right medicine to the case, effectively solve your emotional problems in the shortest time, teach you how long to have a blind date, and determine the relationship. As long as you need to solve the problem, we're here.