Blind date is a process in which two strangers get to know and communicate with each other. If they have feelings for each other, they will consider developing a relationship. But people who know each other through blind date have a weak emotional foundation, so many people don't know how to start falling in love. How to do and blind date object quickly into love state? Hello, everyone. I'm Wang Lan, a senior tutor of the dedicated team. I've been focusing on emotional education for more than ten years. I've mainly solved the following problems for my brothers: recovering my girlfriend, sniping my real life, repairing my marriage, and how to chat. Use real cases to teach you how to save your true love. It's a team with long time, high success rate and high praise rate. Our private customized courses are of high quality and intimate service. We teach you how long to go on a blind date, determine the relationship, and escort the love of brothers.
Women's views / thoughts on blind date
Men's dress affects girls' overall judgment of boys; conversation determines girls' judgment of your depth and connotation; the temperament of maintaining stability, not obscenity, makes girls approve; some reservation, not fully express their own views, let the other party have space to consider you.
Girls face blind date, the heart is contradictory
Blind date girl's heart is actually very complex, because a girl has reached the level of blind date, maybe she is better in a certain aspect, but there may also be some shortcomings, so that the girl needs to go to blind date. Maybe the girl on a blind date didn't want to get married at all. She just finished the task of blind date at the request of her elders.
So such a girl, she may have more personality, and her financial strength is also very sufficient, so the girl who may go on a blind date, she is holding a kind of more try psychology to complete this blind date. Maybe her heart still hopes to find a person who can go on with her and complete her life, but it may not be easy, so the girl will keep a more peaceful attitude and try to go on a blind date. So in the face of the girl's performance is not enthusiastic, don't worry that she is disgusted with you, maybe she is just measuring it, as long as you don't make big mistakes, you still have a lot of opportunities.
Girls' favorite topic
No matter how high the requirements of girls for the other half, but humility is always the basic rule. After creating a gentle and polite person, effective communication or information mining can make girls more relaxed. Most girls like boys to talk about topics they are interested in, but if a man talks too much about women, he will be sneered at by the other party. Therefore, it is particularly important to choose a neutral topic. Generally, when meeting, the boy will arrive early and wait for the girl for a short time. After arriving, he can say this to the girl to resolve the embarrassment
"It's a bit of a traffic jam at this point. Drink some water and have a rest." at the beginning, break the ice with a topic that conforms to the current situation. In the subsequent chat, don't directly use what happened in the other party's circle of friends. It's too direct and embarrassing. There's no buffer space. If you don't make good use of it, it will give the opposite party a feeling of "spying on life". If you are at a loss in the face of the girl you like, or you are faced with the emotional pain that is difficult to solve, and you are not willing to miss each other. Want to snipe, want to recover, let her go with you willingly, click wechat to get a free one-on-one consultation opportunity with the tutor. The tutor will analyze and tell you the probability of success and the follow-up operation steps, and give suggestions for your courses and services. For detailed learning materials, please refer to the tutor's circle of friends.
Blind date - specific strategy
Find common topics and language.
If you want to break the deadlock with the blind date target quickly, you need to find common topics and language with the blind date target quickly. If you can't get together at all, that is to say, you don't know what the other person wants. How can you send out emotional signals to the other person? Before the formal meeting, learn as much as possible about the preferences of the blind date target, and find out the similarities and differences between you.
Talk more about the topics that the other person is really interested in: if she likes watching dramas, you can talk about the latest popular dramas / movies; if she likes traveling, you can talk more about some beautiful places you have been to. When we talk about the topics that the other party is interested in and good at, the enthusiasm will be aroused. At this time, let her say more and listen more, so as to analyze the inner subconsciousness of girls. Don't interrupt the girls' speech, which is the embodiment of men's quality.
If you also lack the communication skills with girls, you will push each other further and further; you don't understand girls' way of thinking, don't understand girls' speaking behavior; and you are not good at solving each other's emotional conflicts. Want to snipe, want to recover, let her go with you willingly, click wechat to get a free one-on-one consultation opportunity with the tutor. The tutor will analyze and tell you the probability of success and the follow-up operation steps, and give suggestions for your courses and services. For detailed learning materials, please refer to the tutor's circle of friends.
Behave decently and generously, not obscenely
Blind date is always accompanied by some money expenditure. I still suggest that male brothers take the initiative to pay. In most people's eyes, men who let women pay for their first date are severely criticized. Don't wait for the blind date to pay. Although she doesn't say anything, she will definitely blacklist you in her heart. From then on, she will never associate with you again. Unless a girl really cares about your payment, insists on AA or her payment, agree with the other party's idea, and then get back the sense of equality from other places. Therefore, the man must be generous in front of the blind date target, don't be stingy and selfish. Especially the careful calculation of money will scare the girl away.
Keep in touch with your blind date goals
There are many men who dare not take the initiative to contact each other after a blind date because the girls are not enthusiastic or confident about their performance. But often after a blind date, if you don't get in touch in time, it will aggravate the disappearance of your strangeness. Girls will think that "ignoring me is not a sign that they don't like me", so contact doesn't necessarily die. If you don't get in touch, you will die.
In other words, after the blind date is over, it is necessary to lay the foundation for the next date. Even a very simple sentence can also make the girl have a mental plan. For example: "next time I'll take you to a better...", "next time we'll go to what you said..." try to create opportunities to get along with each other alone. If you don't get in touch with your blind date target in time, your relationship will not continue. For the blind date target to maintain the normal initiative, take the initiative to ask each other out, do not be too indifferent to her.
Escalate relationships on a date
Chatting is the stability of a relationship and the escalation of a relationship during a date. When the other party can see you often and have a sense of distance within reach, your familiarity with each other is gradually upgrading. With the increasing number of dating, you can add "deep topic" and "physical contact" appropriately to test the other party's acceptance of you. "Deep topics": opinions on feelings, requirements of the other half, emotional history, opinions on you "physical contact": most of them happen inadvertently so that they can not be keenly noticed by girls, such as holding hands on the road and blocking when they get on the elevator.
These actions test a girl's sensitivity. When the other party can accept these behaviors, it shows that she is approbate to you and ambivalent. She regards you as her boyfriend. You just need to be more active to take the other party for your own. If you also have emotional problems and don't know how to make a decision, the professional team can help you. Click add professional emotional tutor, and we will tailor the most suitable scheme for you according to your actual situation. I'm Wang Lan, a senior tutor of the dedicated team. I can find out the most core problem from your feelings, help you suit the right medicine to the case, effectively solve your emotional problems in the shortest time, teach you how long to have a blind date, and determine the relationship. As long as you need to solve the problem, we're here.