Blind date is a way chosen by many young people's associations to say goodbye to being single as soon as possible. Girls also need to understand the common problems and methods of men's tryst with blind date for the first time. Now huazhen.com will discuss with you the strategy of men's tryst with blind date.
What should I pay attention to when I have a first date with a man?
1. Late for the tryst
No matter where you go to a meeting, a job interview or a tryst, it's absolutely taboo to be late. Most people want to think of the late comer with the personality characteristics of negative information, such as unreliable, evasion of responsibility, lack of self-discipline and so on. What's more, everyone's time is precious. Who would want to waste it extravagantly in the hands of a teacher who can't do it on time.
2. Dress too casually or vividly
No one wants to see the other party come to the party wearing rotten and depressed jeans (especially in the fierce attack of not washing for many weeks), wrinkled radish, pickled vegetables and T-shirt! Neat and excellent dressing is the main performance of paying attention to the other party. If you dress too casually for the first time, it is equivalent to telling the other party that you don't care about the tryst at all. Unless the place where you drink has special dress requirements (such as high-end hotels, art centers, etc.), you don't need to dress too much (such as a full suit) or too gorgeous (full of celebrities) to give people a kind of affectation or aristocratic temperament. You can't get close to each other.
3. Talk only about your own business
Tryst is to let two people take advantage of the opportunity of small talk and interaction to understand each other. However, if you are the only one in the whole process who speaks constantly and does not allow the other party to have the opportunity to speak and express their own ideas, then how do you understand him or her? It will also make the other party think that you are also a narcissist who loves to show and is only interested in yourself. Some people are too nervous because of their own, but always say that they don't listen to the other side, but this is not a good way.
2、 Dating strategy for men on blind dates
For the first blind date, no matter men or women, a polite person will be warmly welcomed and loved by everyone. Therefore, when we meet for the first time, we should be polite first and behave properly. In that way, boys will feel relaxed and happy when talking with you, at least it is not easy to be too resistant. When you are elegant and refined in your words and deeds, you can highlight your excellent cultivation, which is a great bonus.
Second, if it's the first time to meet, you should be a little kind besides passion and enthusiasm, and master the sense of propriety to get along with. If it's only because of the first meeting, it's not suitable to be very shy. We all like gentle and considerate people, which will make communication more and more harmonious.
Secondly, no boys hate beautiful girls, excellent design standards will add a lot of colors to your style. No matter your essence is too interesting and colorful, if your appearance design makes others unable to raise their interests or even conflicts, the deeper communication will end again. So it's important for girls to spend hours dressing up for their first blind date with boys.
It's the most important thing to have a tryst with a man on a blind date for the first time. Usually, the place of the tryst is more announced. Therefore, you should dress up slightly. Basketball shoes, sportswear as far as possible do not wear, highlighting women's gentle style of dress relative to gender clothing is more appropriate.