如何最有智慧的相亲 How to make the most intelligent blind date
If love is a dish, then blind date is the cooking method. Blind date can be used by people and has its value. Don't swear that it's not easy to go on a blind date all your life. Take a look at the unmarried people around you. They didn't care about blind dates before, but now they are obedient? And their qualification certificate is not bad at all! The most scientific attitude towards blind date research is to maintain a good attitude, not to contradict, and not to send ardent expectations.
What is the most intelligent blind date
When you really don't want to go on a blind date, stick to it; if you do, you don't have to look sad. It's not paying attention to others, and it's not conducive to your own brand image.
The matchmaker asks you what rules you have for finding someone. If you like someone who looks like a singer and looks like a famous actor most, just say yes. Don't be modest and say there are no rules. Otherwise, you can't find someone who suits your taste. It's like going to a restaurant to order: the chef can't do this "casual" job.
The big disadvantage of blind date is that it is very easy to misinterpret. The first instinct of meeting each other is to try to figure out the other party several times in a hurry and pretending not to care. "Dizzy, the suit is stiff. It's too orthodox. It's not the kind that the little princess likes." "Oh, the small expression of speaking is too shy, and it's not my favorite kind."
Life road first encounter, how can you be free and frank? Maybe he is usually a typical leisure and entertainment type, and only when he is on a blind date does he wear this special dress. Maybe he was originally an extrovert, so he purposely assumed this posture on a blind date. But this deep impression is too persistent, often no longer get along with the intention. In a word, I don't know what the other party likes, and why they are complacent and natural?
The most immediate and transparent message sent to the other party during a blind date is the surface, and it is so obvious that you often neglect your essence. When you don't have enough confidence in your own appearance, why don't you first use game props, such as telephone, SMS and QQ, to communicate with each other a lot, and then get together again when you show your essence, the passing rate will be much higher.
Must a third party platform be on the same platform when meeting? When you expect this because you're worried about it, you're not right. If we do not speculate, no matter how many people help us to make topic discussions, it will not help. On the other hand, if the chat comes, it is unnecessary for others to be present. (emotional questions can be inquired by teacher's mobile phone) \ \ / letter:)
It's OK to talk about what can be brought into full play during a blind date. For example, old songs are broadcast on the blind date venue, but you say: this song is very nice. Whose song do you like best? He said who he liked, but you said: Well, he not only sings well, but also plays very well in series. What kind of series do you like best? He said that he loved watching Korean dramas, but you said: Nowadays, Korean TV dramas are very popular. Korean kimchi is also very popular. Do you like it? He says it's disgusting, but you say: it's still delicious food made by yourself, do you cook by yourself In this way, the other party's aura, taste and consciousness can be clearly understood.
When you feel that the other party is still very good, you can actively contact with TA on the next day of blind date, and simply say hello. There is no need to rush to see each other again. You can also deliberately delay the time, create a little foreshadowing, and estimate that when the other party just begins to think about why you have no contact with TA, you can reply again, and the actual effect will be stronger. If you receive all the information from the other party after 3 days, you can hope to be next.
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