How to have a humorous chat? Hello, I'm Yeer. This article is absolutely dry. Chat + actual combat, is to tell you how to let girls like you actively! (there are colored eggs at the end of the article) the biggest taboo in chatting with girls is that the topic is single, and the chatting is boring and inconsequential. If you want a girl to fall in love with yourself, you should improve your communication skills. When you reach a certain level, you can show a sense of humor in terms of speech and expression. Will always attract girls want to talk with you, naturally, will also attract high-quality girls.
So how to solve this problem quickly? Before that, wild gives you a meeting [36 questions], which psychologist Arthur Allen used to do experiments. After the experiment, both sides can quickly establish attraction. It can instantly close the distance between you and the girl, crack her defensive psychology, share your inner secrets with you, and enhance the intimacy.
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1、 Building communication
1. Circle of friends, this is very important, according to the circle of friends, roughly judge what kind of person the other party is, and make a good estimate. Looking for topics from the other party's circle of friends. Generally speaking, the circle of friends can roughly see a person's occupation and hobbies. If you can't open up a topic, you can ask the other party's problems in the field.
2. We can start with the media of your understanding process. If you know each other through games, you can talk about the game with each other, talk about the platform if you know each other through a certain platform, and talk about your common friends through mutual friends. (remember not to judge this friend in front of her
2、 Skipping chat
First of all, let's talk about one of the most common mistakes boys make: skipping the level to chat. Don't skip the level to chat, don't skip the level to chat, don't skip the level to chat, say important things three times! What is skipping chat? have you eaten? Put on more clothes when it's cold. It's too late to go to bed early. This kind of life care belongs to skipping chat, including account checking. When you first met, it is not advisable. The other party will not feel your concern for her, and even label you with low in mind. These words belong to the other party's family members and boyfriends. You have just met. These words will cause great discomfort to the other party, because you are forced to play the role of her family.
It's not easy to break up a girl's relationship if you like it. Prepared a bellyful of topics, but can only face the girl's "en, ah" perfunctory. I want to express myself, but I don't know how to open my mouth. They don't show their intention and are afraid to be taken away by others. Instead of being anxious and impatient, let wild son help you to seize this opportunity. Add ye'er teacher's private, click on the consultation teacher, and note the word "consultation". You will be given priority to get one-to-one consultation, and take you to the right way of sniping.
3、 Chat level
The correct level of progression should be like this.
1. When you are strangers.
Where is the bathroom in this mall? Your ice cream looks delicious. Where did you get it? Error demonstration: how beautiful you are! Can we have dinner together tonight?
2. After a little familiarity, you can bring some subjective evaluation.
Man: are you a teacher? Don't you say that I always thought you were a female college student!
Woman: Thank you, ha ha. But I miss reading when you said that.
Man: Yes, I fought with my teacher several times when I was reading, but I was afraid of our head teacher.
Woman: isn't it? You dare to fight with the teacher, why are you afraid of your head teacher?
Man: Er... Because our head teacher is female, I don't beat girls.
3. Upgrade the relationship between men and women
Ladies and gentlemen, it's easy to talk to this point. Many brothers also died in this link, extremely easy to cool. In the process of upgrading, it was more of a trial, and the other side accepted the move. If you don't accept the recruitment, you should be in a position that can be defended.
Man: this new dress you bought is very nice. It's very nice.
Woman: Well, I think I have a good eye.
You: it's true that I have a good vision. I'll have to look for a girlfriend as well as you in the future. (explore the relationship and make sure of her position in her heart)
If she replies: you speak so well, I believe you will find it in the future. (Trial upgrade failed) correct operation: immediately turn to defense, remember not to force upgrade. Immediately reply: that is, if I can't find a big deal, I'll be single all my life. If she returns: the eye is good generally quite can spend money, can you afford it? (try to upgrade successfully) correct operation (can go further): No, I didn't find out how much money you spend? (follow up the victory and stabilize the relationship)
If you start chatting with the goddess, her attitude towards you suddenly changes. You're flattering, but you're still cold. You seem to have tried your best, but you still can't see the situation clearly. You don't know how to reverse the attitude of Goddess and make the emotion warm up quickly. I don't know how to show my value naturally in the anxious situation. You may as well add Yeer teacher's private, click on the consultation teacher, and remark "consultation". You will get one-to-one consultation first, and take you to the right way of sniping.
Generally speaking, chatting has been upgraded to a gradual level: current events - feelings for each other - insert some small ambiguity into daily life (the following are the most common mistakes boys make): control the frequency of chatting (don't take your lovesickness as a reason to harass others, you should remember that you are only her friend or a stranger not familiar with.
Before you want to chat, you have to have a strong attraction, otherwise it will only arouse resentment. The pursuit is not a matter of eager for success (if you are still very strange, don't rush to promote the relationship). Adjust your mentality (remember that the purpose of chatting with others is to form attraction, not to relieve loneliness), so you should learn how to provide your own product in the process Don't always talk about daily life (with the main line, for example, I'm here to show humor, or blur the invitation, eliminate strangeness, etc.)
Chat to a degree, not greedy (some boys like to catch the girl chatting, until the girl is very sleepy, also reluctant to sleep) can set the time, such as how often I find her, how long to chat, how long to leave. If you want to make the atmosphere relaxed, you should first have a good attitude. The topic should be turned around and not out of balance.
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