男女关系中最避讳的一种方法——『跳跃性聊天法』，近期我正在触碰完一个类似的实例，何不贴上去、让大伙儿搞清楚这类聊天错误观念到底是哪些的？跳跃性逻辑思维较大 的缺点取决于：仅有当碰到一个可以get到你的点的人，相互间的聊天气氛才可以是舒服且开心的，但要是另一方与你的相互话题并并不是许多 ，那麼那样的聊天方法通常会让接受者不明就里、乃至还会继续造成明显的厌倦心态。
另外在应对一个心爱的异性朋友，当另一方沒有发觉你的话题点时，你经常会踏入到非常尴尬的处境，因此你也就会情不自禁地自圆其说，結果越描越黑、越想表述就越让异性朋友觉得抵触。“许多 情况下，并不是另一方不愿与你聊天，只是你造成的话题点过度聚集和无气味，另一方确实没什么与你聊天的冲动，当然会越来越没有话说。”因此 尤其会聊天的人，她们的思维模式是哪些的？
针对这类思维跳跃的男生而言，你不断向另一方抛转让ta们无感觉的话题，另一方就需要使用大脑神经去回应你。假如另一方在压根对你没多少兴趣爱好的前提条件下，这类尴聊方法会在心理状态上造成另一方巨大的不舒适度。因而『诱导性聊天法』聊天法，是使你在聊天中当一个“聆听者”，将聊天的主导权拥有给女生，而且依据女生的心态适度地牵引带话题，让女生在与你聊天时既不尴尬、又能觉得到趣味。为了更好地给大伙儿迅速学好聊天迅速追到爱的人，我给大伙儿提前准备了一份礼品！我能常常在的盆友圈中发许多 趣味的聊天话题，和许多 女生很感兴趣的话题！
How to talk to girls and find topics? To put it bluntly, if you want to learn to chat with girls, you should first learn to "shut up". Many people, especially boys, have a deep misunderstanding about chatting: "if they think that they know everything and can talk freely, then chatting with girls will not be a problem." What happened? When you chat with a girl, you become a "boring chatterbox". You talk about it all the time. When you meet a girl with a good temper, you will attach an expression bag or a mood word. If you have a bad temper, you will be given a smile or not to talk at all. [take your time, after the key points]
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Can't chat, often can't find a topic, chatting to find nothing to say
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One of the most taboo ways in sexual relations is "jumping chat". Recently, I have come across a similar case. I might as well post it to let you understand what this misunderstanding is like? The biggest drawback of leaping thinking is that only when you meet someone who can get your point, the atmosphere of chatting between them can be comfortable and pleasant. However, as long as there are not many common topics between the other party and you, such a way of chatting often makes the receiver not know what to say, and even produces strong boredom.
At the same time, in the face of a desirable opposite sex, when the other party does not notice your topic, you will often step into a very embarrassing situation, so you can not help but justify yourself. The more you describe, the more you want to explain, the more repulsive the opposite sex will be. "Most of the time, it's not that the other party doesn't want to chat with you, but that the topic you cause is too dense and tasteless, and the other party really has no desire to chat with you, so it will naturally become speechless." So what is the way of thinking of people who are especially good at chatting?
1、 Introduction to chat
To put it bluntly, if you want to learn how to chat well, you should first learn to shut up. Many people, especially boys, have a deep misunderstanding about chatting: "if they think that they know everything and can talk freely, then chatting with girls will not be a problem."
What happened? When you chat with a girl, you become a "boring chatterbox". You talk about it all the time. When you meet a girl with a good temper, you will attach an expression bag or a mood word. If you have a bad temper, you will be given a smile or not to talk at all. Why is that? Because your "cool" in chatting is all based on the insipidity of girls. You have no idea what girls want to talk about, and you can't grasp the emotional points of girls. Naturally, you feel chatting with yourself. In the eyes of girls, you are running trains all over your mouth.
For this kind of thinking jump boys, you constantly throw to the other side so that they are insensitive to the topic, the other side will use brain cells to answer you. If the other party is not interested in you at all, this kind of awkward chat will cause great discomfort to the other party psychologically. Therefore, the "induced chat method" is to let you become a "listener" in the chat, transfer the initiative of chatting to the girl students, and appropriately lead the topic according to the girl's mood, so that the girl can not be embarrassed and feel interesting when chatting with you. In order to quickly learn to chat and quickly catch up with the people you like, I have prepared a gift for you! I will often in the circle of friends to send a lot of interesting chat topics, and a lot of girls interested in the topic!
If you can't talk? Can't you find a topic? You can add mine directly. In my circle of friends, you can see a lot of interesting chatting topics and topics that girls are interested in. I will send my real-life chat cases with beauties to my circle of friends for your reference
① "Hi, southern girl ~" how do you know? "
"Because your circle of friends is very emotional. The southern girls are very soft and delicate."
② "Hi ~ I haven't met you in the restaurant for a long time." "Hey, I don't have much appetite recently."
"What's the matter? What's bothering you lately?"
③ "I have a cat recently. I want to ask you something." "how do you know I have a cat, too?"
"Look at your desk is decorated with kittens, I guess you must be a competent shovel excrement officer ~" remember: from the girl's information points to extract her desire to talk about the topic, at the same time can reasonably guess, to induce the other party more information points. It doesn't matter whether you guess it right or not, because your opening remarks have already induced the other party's desire to chat. If you guess right, they will follow you. If you say wrong, TA will smile and explain the reason to you. You can't lead the rhythm of chatting strongly. Instead, you can induce the answer through a relaxed topic. This will not expose your strong purpose of chatting, but also arouse the desire of the other party to talk with you.
Therefore, "reverse rationalization" is actually a key to open a girl's heart by chatting. In fact, everyone tries his best to cover up the real himself, and at the same time, he is eager to be paid attention to his inner frailty in the contradiction. Generally speaking, the thinking of chatting is mainly divided into three points:
1. Be a good listener and capture the other party's wishes from the chat message
2. Be a person who is good at finding needs and perceive the other party's emotions from the topic of conversation
3. Be a person who can walk into each other's world and observe the "unknown" side of each other from the communication
When you internalize the above three items and use them for yourself, why do you have no words to chat with? Of course, for more chatting, how to improve your EQ, and make yourself more attractive and attractive, please go directly to Jia Yuge, and we will tell you how to do it one-on-one. Of course, you can also learn the chat skills that my circle of friends updates every day and the correct way to get along with girls, so as to improve your level of getting along with and chatting with girls!
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