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Do you know what girls talk about? I fell in love with a girl and racked my brains to find a way to chat up. Finally, I'm coming. You feel that this is an opportunity to have a chat with her. When you open it, you suddenly find that you don't know what to say. People who have experienced this painful feeling know that they want to get closer to each other while they don't know how. Don't worry. Brother Yu will help you out.
Today's post is divided into two parts: how to find the topic and how to talk after the topic is found. [take your time, focus on the back] first of all, give a brief introduction to the team: Hello everyone, we are a wing team, focusing on emotional teaching for 8 years. Committed to providing you with how to chat, snipe the real life, save the true love of sexual emotional services. Hope to help more and more brothers achieve emotional freedom. It is worth emphasizing that our team has published the replicable chat service for the two problems of "how to chat" and "social software chat", which can help students solve problems more quickly and effectively.
If you have the following problems:
Can't chat, often can't find a topic, chatting to find nothing to say
You can clearly feel that this girl knows you like her, but she always tells you that she is a friend
You have girls you like, but you don't know how to pursue them
You date girls a lot, but you just eat and watch movies, and you don't make any real progress
So please directly get my, click, send me your current problem puzzle one time on, I will help you to analyze the situation and solve the problem! At the same time, my circle of friends will update a large number of chat skills and the skills of getting along with girls every day. You can also add learning (if you can't add it, you can also click my avatar to chat with me, and send your number directly to brother Yu, and I'll add you) ok. Now, let's go straight to the main topic, let brother Yu lead you to gradually subvert your three outlooks and feel and chat with your heart God can make women fall in love with you!
The beginning of a chat: finding a topic
The beginning of a chat starts with a topic. A good topic will make two people more interesting and unable to stop chatting, while no one is willing to continue to talk about a bad topic. So the first step, Yu Ge will teach you how to choose this topic.
1. Entry level: general topics
Chat in the introduction of skills, easy to understand, good grasp, the most important is: effective. But for many people, this topic has become a big problem. What topic is attractive to girls? Feather brother to tell you, the topic is attractive, the point is that you throw this topic out, how to return next.
A lot of people have no topic to talk about here, and some people directly ask: which movie did you watch. Ask, you ask. I'll see how you can go back later. For this kind of routine topic, this way of chatting is wrong. This routine problem is just the preparation for what you say later. You should remember that your purpose is to chat with her, not to know which movie she is watching.
The right way to deal with this is to write around her answers. When a person pays attention to something, it must be able to attract her attention in a short time. Any comment you make on it will touch her mood. Don't make the conversation dull. For regular topics, your greatest advantage is that you can provide value. You should show the value you can provide and attach this value to what she is doing.
A man must know more. She is watching a comedy. How do you talk? Lean on Zhou Xingchi. People all over China owe him a movie ticket. Spread the topic out with your opinions and chat. She doesn't want to see a movie because what you say is more interesting than the movie. In order to quickly learn to chat and quickly catch up with the people you like, I have prepared a gift for you! I will often in the circle of friends to send a lot of interesting chat topics, and a lot of girls interested in the topic! If you can't talk? Can't you find a topic? You can add mine directly. In my circle of friends, you can see a lot of interesting chatting topics and topics that girls are interested in. I will send my real-life chat cases with beauties to my circle of friends for your reference
2. Advanced: event topics
"suddenly felt invisible poverty-stricken population." These topics will appear in every official account of the public every night. Why do people like to write about these topics? Because these topics are of discussion, an article is sent out to read 100000 + instantly. Human beings are gregarious animals. Language ability is the second largest ability under the ability of thinking, even higher than the ability of action. The role of language is communication.
And these topics just touch the point of communication. Event topic is the medium that arouses your desire to chat, and it is one of the better media. Always remember your starting point. You are going to chat with her instead of arguing about who is right and who is wrong in the selected event. If there is any, it is OK to chat. Who is right and who is wrong has nothing to do with you. So this kind of discussion topic is a good topic that you can use when you chat with your goddess.
3. Research body: key words initiate topic
Find the highest level of topic, and everyone can learn, the secret is: find the keywords she replied. Most of the time when a person says a sentence, there are only one or two words in it. One or two words are useful. Find out these words, which are the key words you can use to spread.
"How are you today?"
"It's good. Step by step."
What is the key word of this answer? "Step by step" four words, if it was me, I would immediately talk to her around these four words.
"Is it boring?"
This answer is to pave the way for future communication. How will she reply to me when I answer like this?
"No, not bad. Used to it."
What she answers is not very important, because your topic has erased the discomfort between you two, and the subsequent chat will be much smoother. What we need to do next is to keep looking for keywords and spread the topic
The brewing of a relationship: the process of chatting
Many people have heard such a sentence: what a person looks like, depends on how he speaks. This sentence is also applicable to feelings. You should know that when you have an idea about a girl, you and her chat is not idle talk, you need to through this chat process to achieve the purpose of attraction. Next, let's talk about how to chat this day.
1. Mind reading -- understand what the other person wants to say
Mind reading is not a metaphysics, nor is it a super ability. It is a basic skill that almost everyone has. When chatting, you must be able to read mind. Mind reading doesn't really mean that you can completely analyze this person. You just need to make clear what the meaning of this sentence is, and it will be a good day for us to chat.
"I don't want to eat today. I want to lose weight." What do you mean when the other person says this? I don't know. I don't know. The so-called mind reading must be based on your understanding of her. If she is usually a girl who cares about her figure very much, this sentence means: I don't feel fat, you should boast about my good figure.
How to improve
Brother, you can see this all the time from the beginning, so the feathered master believes that you must be the kind of person who wants to quickly change the status quo and improve your love level quickly. Maybe you can't stand chatting with girls any more. Maybe you don't want to go out with girls every time. Maybe you want to improve yourself and make yourself better. These problems can be difficult for you who have no experience in love. But Yu Ge is very responsible to tell you that Tongtong is not a problem. What matters is whether you meet the following three conditions:
1. You must make up your mind to change yourself and make yourself better
2. Willing to invest in yourself rather than just spend money on women
As a student, he is not tall or handsome. However, he can catch up with the girl he likes after he chooses his tutor and cooperates with him patiently. People are not tall, not handsome, no money, still can find their own love, and love the woman happy together. To make women like you and never give up on you; not just like your money, when you are down and out; only choose the right method, have professional tutors to help you, can you achieve the results you want.
Start to change
In fact, brothers, it's not difficult to get along with women, whether it's chatting or dating! As long as you have the right method and professional tutors to help you, you can do whatever you want. Don't worry about you chatting with girls, girls suddenly ignore you; don't know how to reply; go out with girls and don't know where to play; and don't know how to improve the relationship with girls, because you haven't studied systematically.
Do you know what girls talk about? If you want to have sweet love, sweet her, they can directly join our internal courses, click, and directly tell the teacher - I want to change. At the same time, you can also send any emotional problems to the teacher directly, so that professional people can do professional things, which is much better than you want to break your head alone. Teachers will also send daily dry goods in the circle of friends, click, usually boring to see, you will certainly have a harvest. Wing emotion, born for love. Your love is escorted by us! I'm brother Yu. I'm waiting for you in the internal course!