但是一旦约出去，女生却发觉你聊天的情况下像个作家或是高帅富，可碰面了便是一个内向型羞涩的死肥宅，心寒的她恨不得立刻离去。但是，刚开始的情况下還是提议要用文本聊天。由于你聊天的能力不足的情况下，文本聊天能够 让你充裕的時间去思索。当大家的氛围熟悉起来的情况下，视频语音的聊天会比文本的聊天更非常容易令人感觉拉进间距。文本是冰凉的，而视频语音能够 令人感觉到你的情绪状态，更为令人感觉真正。
跟女生聊天的话题怎么找？人，一定要有学习培训观念和更改观念，不懂就问，不容易就需要学，假如你不谈，那麼你始终都不容易，你没学你始终没话题没方式！谈恋爱是能够 学习培训的，聊天也是能够 学习培训的，假如你要快点儿寻找女友或是挽回女友，那麼你一直在加进我的的情况下一定要积极的把你的问题发送给我，我帮你好好的剖析一下！看看你还有没有机遇，或是教你更强的方式追上她！另外，假如给你一切的聊天或是感情问题，你能立即在上把你的问题私信我就可以了！我的里也是有很多我跟其他女生的趣味聊天纪录，趣味的聊天话题讨论，约会技巧，你也能够 再加上收看学习培训！（假如，加不上我的，那么你能够 点一下我的头像在这个手机软件上私信我，将你的号发送给我，我加你！）
How to find the topic of chatting with girls? If you ask a girl what kind of boy do you want to find as a boyfriend, most of the girls may say that it feels like watching. The answer seems simple, but it is very difficult to understand. The girl's answer completely confuses you. You don't know how to make the girl feel. Why do girls say to look at the feeling instead of telling you how tall, handsome and rich you are? In fact, in the girl's bones, they do not see these are important, they really want a feeling, a special feeling, a feeling of love. So what exactly is this feeling? (take your time, focus on the back)
If you were burned, would you feel it? If someone scolded you, would you feel it? Right, the front is the physical sense, the latter is the emotional feeling. Brothers, I'm Allen, a professional emotional team consultant. If you have any emotional problems, you can click directly, and then you can chat with me in private! At the same time, I also have a lot of chat skills, interesting chat topics, and dating skills, can be added to learn!
So, what girls say is emotional feeling. And want to let the girl have the feeling of love, is to stimulate her mood, let the other party feel that it is interesting to be with you. If every time you go out on a date with the other person, the atmosphere is very dull, and it will end in the future. What you need is to make her think about you day and night. How to do that is to let the other party have emotional ups and downs with you. Of course, it's just one of them. In the future, we need three outlooks, character guidance and so on.
And how to stimulate women's emotions? People to people communication right, conversation accounts for the vast majority. So chatting is the secret of stimulating women's feelings. How to make girls fall in love with you through chatting? Next, I'd like to share four tips to make your chat full of magic, stimulate women's emotions, and make women miss you day and night! Grasp the topic content of girls, or a key word, and carry out random association, not limited by the environment to continue a topic or open a new topic. Here are four tips for association:
1. Parallel association method
It is based on the meaning of a woman or a key word to develop a parallel topic with it. For example, I'm tired today. The average person answers, "yes, have a good rest.". If this mechanical answer, there will be no topic to talk about.. key words: today, shopping, tired, you can choose one or more.
Man: I went to karaoke with some friends today, and a very interesting thing happened. Man: didn't you have a romantic encounter when shopping? Man: I'm tired of shopping. It won't happen the next time I'm by your side. Analysis: want to let the girl reply you, you have to let her easy to pick up, or let her have the desire to reply! If you often say, oh, OK, or smile when you are chatting, how can you ask other girls to reply to you? After all, most of the time, girls don't chat. You need to guide and hook up!
So, when you chat, you should learn to guide girls. Of course, if you can't, you can add it to me, and look at the chat records between me and other girls in the circle of friends, and see how I chat, and see the topics that girls are interested in. If you see too much, you will!
2. Upward Association
The upward association method is based on the semantic meaning of the other party and induces upward. For example: Girl: I'm so tired at work. Man: Thank you for the hard work this job brings you. How can you see the rainbow without going through the ordeal. This is the state of work fatigue, associated with the level of philosophy of life. For example: Girl: no longer believe in love.
Man: let's make a bet. What will you do if you fall in love a year later. Most people are persuading, so the upper thinking you use brings the girl's thinking to bet with you instantly, because no matter how you persuade the other party's thinking is in the fact of breaking up, this sentence brought into the other party and you, which is the difference in thinking. In fact, comfort a person is not so beautiful language, if transferred to the other party's current sadness, this is the effective comfort. It's not about letting the other person think about the sad results that have happened.
3. Downward Association
Downward association is to subdivide downward according to the meaning of the other party. For example: Girl: I always have insomnia recently. Man: it seems that it's either work or love. Girl: my cooking skills are very good. Man: really? What would you do with a live fish? The more you talk, the more you talk.
4. Backward association method
Backward association refers to extending backward according to the meaning of the other party. For example: Girl: we may not be predestined. Man: people who are predestined will meet each other in the future. Push away from the other party, don't rush to express your sincerity, because the other party has already denied you. If you dare, the other party will not accept you at this moment, because a decision made by a person must not be sudden, but a decision that has been thought for a long time. After this decision, you can't overturn it in a short time. You need to create opportunities, give yourself a plan to slow down, and then attract.
Push the other side away, let the other party feel that you are not under pressure, there is still a chance to contact in the future. It's meaningless to be dogged. Remember, it's your own way of thinking. If you don't consider other people's thoughts and feelings, it's easy for them to feel pressure! Girl: I also want to have a holiday. Man: that's just right. When you have a holiday, let's go to XXX together. Let's have a positive negative together. Backward association is the backward movement of time and space. It is the imagination and imagination of the future. According to the situation, we can expand the scene appropriately and implant the picture.
If you can't chat, chat awkwardly, and can't find a topic, you can add mine directly. I will often send some interesting chat topics in my circle of friends, and some topics that girls are interested in. At the same time, we will update a wonderful chat record between me and beauty every day in my circle of friends! Plus my look at the master is how to chat with girls, how to quickly chat girls hi! If you can't chat, learn from me! In addition, it is very important to pay attention to some forms of chatting.
First: use voice to chat with girls
The time given by text chat can be considered. It is not difficult for brothers to chat with girls in words. However, once she is asked to make a phone call or chat with a girl by voice, she will become nervous and afraid like learning a foreign language. It is suggested that you practice chatting with girls by voice, because if you want to date a girl, you will always meet and talk. If you chat on the Internet with words, it's very exciting.
But once you make an appointment, the girl finds that you chat like a poet or Gao Fu Shuai. When you meet, you are an introverted and shy fat house. Disappointed, she is eager to leave immediately. However, at the beginning, it is recommended to use more text chat. Because when you lack the ability to chat, text chat can give you enough time to think. When you get familiar with the atmosphere, voice chat is more likely to make people feel closer than text chat. Words are cold, but voice can make people feel your emotional state, and make people feel real.
In the past three years, thousands of brothers have successfully found a girlfriend or saved their love by learning from us! However, if you don't learn, you will always be able to stay in place, never! If you can't chat now? Can't date? Will not fall in love or break up, want to save your girlfriend, if, you want to like them, through learning the right way, hold your favorite woman in your arms! So you can click and learn from me!
How to find the topic of chatting with girls? People must have the consciousness of learning and changing. If you don't know, you have to ask. If you don't ask, you will never learn. If you don't learn, you will never have a topic! Love can be learned, chatting can also be learned, if you want to quickly find a girlfriend or save a girlfriend, then you must take the initiative to send your problems to me when you add to me, I will help you to make a good analysis! See if you have a chance, or teach you a better way to catch her! At the same time, if you have any chatting or emotional problems, you can talk about your problems in private on me! I also have a lot of interesting chat records with other girls, interesting chat topics, dating skills, you can also watch learning! (if you can't add mine, you can click my avatar to chat with me on this software, send your number to me, and I'll add you!)