How to bring back the dead chat? I believe that this is the trouble of many brothers. If you can't catch up with the girl you like, you can only do it by yourself. Recently, after many brothers added to my wechat, they always asked me such a question: "how to chat with a girl I like", "I can't find a chat topic", "I don't know how to pursue someone I like". What should I do to solve the problem that I can't chat? (take a look, the key is later)
First of all, I'd like to introduce myself to my brothers. I'm Nell, senior psychological counselor and first-class emotional nurse. I'm dedicated to the emotional industry, hoping to help more and more brothers realize their emotional freedom. Committed to providing you with how to chat, restore feelings, snipe life and other sexual emotional services. If you have any of the above problems, please get my wechat directly and send me your current problem confusion on wechat at one time. I will help you analyze the situation and solve the problem directly. At the same time, I will also collect a lot of girls' favorite chat topics and chat dating skills, and send them to my wechat circle of friends, which can be added to wechat learning. (if you can't add wechat, you can click my avatar to chat with me in private, send your wechat to me, and let me add you) if you don't say much gossip, you can directly present your brothers with a full supply of dry goods. Learn quickly!!!
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1、 Provide value chat
Brothers, what's the basic purpose of your conversation with her? It's to be a boyfriend and girlfriend. Then you want to achieve this goal, is to attract girls. The first step in attracting girls is to offer your personal value. This personal value includes your conduct, your attitude towards feelings, your plan for the future, etc. why should you provide value first? For example, when you drive a sports car to the gate of the University, will there be many girls watching you? For example, if you take a handful of money and scatter it on the street, others will come to see you. When you show your value, others will be attracted by you, and girls will be interested in you and attracted by you.
For example: Man: I came back from the gym today (to provide personal value, girls will feel that you have self-discipline in life). On the way, I saw a little kirky. It was so cute (attached a picture of little kirky, girls have no resistance to cute things) female: Wow! It's really cute. I want to have a man: do you have a dog at home In this way, the topic will be opened up. For example, if she sends a picture of a dish in her circle of friends, you can send her a message like this: "the dish you sent in the circle of friends today It looks delicious. Did you make it yourself? "If you praise her cooking, she will be very happy, and then she will reply you. She may say," of course, I made it myself. ".
Then you can go on and say, "you're really great. There are really few girls who can cook." When she replies to your message, you can directly say, "if you have a chance, we can compete in cooking skills (offer your own value and cook), so that you can try my craft (fuzzy invitation), hahaha." If you think the teacher is right and want to learn more chat skills and dating skills with the teacher, you can add them to my wechat. There are some interesting chat records, chat topics, some reproducible topics and some dating skills in my wechat. We can add wechat to see how teachers chat and what topics teachers have talked about!
2、 Reply time
Brothers must remember that if you want to change from friend to girlfriend, you should master the frequency of chatting. For example: you sent her a message at 7 a.m., and she didn't get back to you until 9:30. Many brotherhood choose to reply to the news immediately. They even say that the girl hasn't returned the message, and they keep sending messages to the girls, "are you busy?" and "why don't you reply to my message?". If it's you, you have a girl who sends messages to you every day and revolves around you. What's your idea? You must think that this girl needs you very much and she likes you very much.
Brother, can you cherish such a girl? No one will cherish what is easy to get. So this approach directly exposes your sense of need. Let the girl feel that you need her! You are deliberately looking for her attention, and maybe she will falsely cooperate with you, so that you are willing to become a spare tire! The correct way is: you reply a little later, don't rush to reply! Frankly, she will return to you after 2 hours, you will reply to her in 20 minutes. Don't let her feel that you are turning around her. You should treat anything with her with a stable attitude! Brothers, if you have something you don't understand or have emotional confusion, you can add my wechat to send me your problem confusion, and I will help you analyze and solve the problem. Remember, I'm doing the same thing day after day, helping my brothers solve their emotional problems. Believe me, I will lead you out of the dilemma of chatting, as soon as possible to hold the beauty home.
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Third, the topic of chat should be extended
I believe many brothers choose a good topic when chatting, and girls are also willing to chat. But without a few words, I felt that I couldn't go on talking. I talked to death, even if I had racked my brains to change a topic. This is because brothers like to use "push up topics", while girls prefer "cutting down topics". Push up topic refers to: like to summarize the topic or give solutions. Cut topic: refers to the extension, refinement and emotional resonance of the topic. Take a simple example: a girl takes a fancy to a skirt and shares it with her best friend. My best friend praised that the girl was very suitable for this dress, and knew that a new clothing store was suitable for girls. She made an appointment to go shopping together next time.
Here, girls are cutting the topic. Through praising girls, girlfriends have emotional resonance and extend the topic to shopping together. Brother, if a girl sends you a message saying that she likes a skirt and puts on a picture of herself wearing a skirt, how would you reply? (thinking for 3 seconds) then look at the answers below to see if you are in the middle. Most of the boys' replies are just like this: "it's very good. Buy it if you think it's suitable" and "buy it if you like". Brothers do not feel a little confused, such a reply is not good? Not bad, but the thinking of girls is curved, not the same as boys' linear thinking.
In such a hurry to give the answer and summary of the girl students, can only receive a girl's "um", the end of the "OK" topic. The correct way: look at the photos, you are very suitable for this skirt. Ah, I will accompany you to go shopping next time when I am free. (praise the girl, the girl will be very happy, then extend to go down, I can accompany you to go shopping, so that I have the opportunity to ask her out) such a reply will also let the girl have a topic to talk with you. She will be happy to share with you all the events about the dress and the chain of topics. Of course, if you often chat, chat often cold, add my micro signal, I will often share with you some of my collection of girls' favorite topics in the circle of friends. Due to the length of the article, today's heavyweight dry goods are shared with brothers here.
If you are aware of your own problems and want to completely change yourself, but you don't know what to do, you can add my wechat to explain your situation to me, and I will help you analyze it. Many brothers have such questions: what kind of boys do girls like? It is generally acknowledged that boys who are handsome, tall and well-dressed are the most popular among girls. But for girls, as the object of communication, marriage, reliable boy is the best choice. What is reliable? First of all, we should have a sense of responsibility. The sense of responsibility includes the single-minded feelings, self-improvement and long-term planning for the future. Secondly, he has a sense of reality. He doesn't boast or act. He speaks appropriately. He can pay attention to the details of girls' life and do what they say.
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If you want to change your appearance, but don't know how to change yourself, you can add my wechat, and I will help you build your own attraction. Some brothers said, no, girls are material and like rich ones. I'm entangled with my brothers here. To correct this wrong idea, girls talk about material things with men who have no money and love with interesting men. So don't blame girls for material things, but you are boring. Here are some students' learning experience: in the past few years, we have helped too many brothers achieve emotional freedom and pursue their own happiness.
How to bring back the dead chat? If you also want to have sweet love, sweet her, then directly join our internal courses, directly tell me - I want to change. Nell emotion, born for love, your love is escorted by us! I'm Nell, I'm waiting for you in the internal course!