What are you talking to girls about? Many brothers make a mess of talking with girls, whether it's the beginning, the topic discussion, or the upgrading of the relationship. Like a headless mosquito scurrying around, as a result, sister paper does not like to chat with you, indifferent to you! Because it is not easy to chat, many brothers originally knew and touched the sister paper who had great interests in him in the early stage, and he did not like to respond when he talked to me. Even if he said that everyone was more suitable to be a good person card of Pan Youfa, the more serious one would be added to the blacklist!
How can we find a topic with a girl and make her feel for you according to the chat? [take a look, the key is in the back] first of all, give the brothers a brief introduction to the team: Hello everyone! We are the elite team of emotional consultation of technical specialty - wing elite team, committed to emotional classroom teaching for eight years. Focus on how to show everyone how to chat, block the real life, retain the true love of the emotional marriage service project. Looking forward to helping more and more brothers complete their feelings at will. It is worth noting that for "how to chat" and "chat with friends software", the elite team has created a "copyable chat service project" to help you quickly improve your chat level.
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If I have the following problems:
It's not easy to chat. I often can't find a topic to discuss. If you talk to me, you will find that you have no words to say
You can clearly feel that this girl knows you love her, but always tells you that she is a basin friend
Give it to the girl you love, but don't know how to pursue perfection
You often meet with girls, but you only eat and watch TV series. There is no real progress at all
Then please get mine immediately, click and send me your current problems and doubts at once, and I will help you analyze the situation and solve the difficulties immediately! In addition, the circle of friends will upgrade a lot of chatting methods and proper communication methods for girls every day. You can also add learning and training (if you can't, you can also click on my head picture and my private message, and send your number to brother Yu immediately. I'll add you OK. Now you can directly enter the theme and let brother Yu lead you to gradually restore your three outlooks and seriously practice You can make a woman fall in love with you by chatting
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First of all, look at a chat screen shot of a brother who just signed up for the course a few days ago. The content is as follows: if your chat is similar to that of the brother above, then you should stop chatting immediately. Because you really don't have "social media judgment", it is possible that many brothers will make some mistakes at first, but this is not true It's not scary. It's scary that you don't know you've made a mistake.
The incorrect content of the above chat depends on: according to the method of asking questions, open the topic discussion with girls, and do not understand the continuous topic discussion. You think you can master the girl students according to the method of understanding, resulting in interactive communication, but it is not the correct mode of thinking. I know this brother's chatting method very well. After all, everyone will be curious about something and love people. You should master it according to your understanding. To understand, only by mastering the other party can not achieve success in catching up with her, only you show your use value, she will be attracted to you.
The proper way to chat with girls is to turn the difficult questions asked by girls into an interesting way. What are you doing? What are you doing? I think you're trimming your legs on the sofa? (suppose the girl is doing something) or: "what are you doing? Suddenly I feel a little miss you. Originally I feel that missing someone is a very boring thing, but I don't know why I still miss you.". (show interest in girls)
Is that a lot more interesting than asking a girl what she's doing? That way you can make a difference with other boys and make girls think you are interesting. In addition to the attractiveness of opening words, you must use them to enhance the value of your own. If your use value meets the requirements of a girl, she will like you. Let's talk about how to show your own use value according to chat.
Show your own use value according to chat
Girls will distinguish the use value of a man according to the four levels in the chat, which is not how much money is said. These four levels are architecture, situation, system software and method. NLP has to be mentioned here. In the applied linguistics of NLP neural system program flow, only two definitions of architecture and situation are mentioned. In chat, system software and method are the key components. How to show the value of chatting with girls? You can see from the chat conversation above that the brother did not transmit all self-worth to the girl, and the girl could not distinguish his use value from his language.
And the vast majority of girls are also in a passive society to develop ethics, she is not easy to actively ask you, therefore We must actively show to girls, but you have been showing their own use value, it must be the main performance. Of course, you don't have to be too immediate or blow yourself up to God, so you will also be passed by girls. It is the most powerful display to understand that not to make public is the most powerful display.
How to improve
Brother, you can see here from the beginning, so the wing teacher firmly believes that you must be the kind of person who wants to get rid of the predicament quickly and improve the level of love quickly. Maybe you can't bear to chat with girls all the time. Maybe you don't want to go out and meet with girls every time. Maybe you have to improve yourself and make yourself stronger and stronger. This kind of problem is very likely to be difficult for you who don't feel in love. However, Yu Ge is very committed to say to you, all are not difficult problems, the key is whether you meet the following three standards:
1. You must make up your mind to change the situation and make yourself stronger and stronger
2. Want to invest in your own projects, not just pay for women
3. They can cooperate with each other and have the ability of execution and execution, instead of the "gun mouth man" who is not easy to do
If you have already made up your mind and are eager to get rid of the difficulties, and also want to invest in your own projects, you can also work closely with the teachers, then you can look down again. Getting along with girls is actually a relatively simple thing. What's going on? Because if you are an ordinary person, you can have the ability to learn and train, then you can talk about love; if you learn to love skills, learn to get along with girls, improve your EQ intelligence quotient, and improve your work ability of falling in love.
Doubt: economic development, working ability is not very good, what's the use? What's the use of looking bad? Teacher's response: if you have all the normal income, and want to love yourself well, to put it more superficially, it is to put the money spent on women before and take the project investment for yourself, which is completely OK. Men and women, only lazy boys, no ugly men. You don't have to make excuses for yourself all the time. In fact, if you can grasp the way, if you can make up your mind to learn training, you can still get the results you want.
Wing teacher a student, he does not look tall, not good-looking, but, selected the wing teacher, in the teacher's careful specific guidance, and also actively cooperate with each other, can also catch up with their favorite girl. People don't look tall, don't look good-looking, no money, still can find their own feelings, and love the woman happy together. Make sure that what women like is you and you can't give up; it's not just money that simply feels for you. If you're poor, you'll take a pat on the buttocks and leave. Only by choosing the right way and having technical teachers to help you, can you achieve the results you want.
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As a matter of fact, brothers, it is not a problem to socialize with women, whether it is chatting or dating! If you get the right way and have a technical teacher to help you, you can be free. Don't worry about you chatting with girls, and girls suddenly ignore you; don't know how to respond; you don't know where to play when you meet with girls; and you don't know how to get up with girls because you don't have any systematic software training.
What are you talking to girls about? Yu Ge expects everyone to discuss and understand the topic of love, but he will eventually become the best friend and worry about brother! If you want to quickly improve your chat level, you can immediately learn and train the content of Yuge's chat course. Click "send immediately after you add Yuge" - I want to change it. Yu Ge will let you carry out multi-dimensional emotional analysis, recommend appropriate course content for you, teach you to catch up with your favorite woman, catch up with your favorite sister paper, and quickly deal with your emotional problems. Brother Yu, I'm still waiting for you!