When many people mention the break-up, it's really painful. In fact, you still care too much about men, you don't have to put all your eyes on men, you will naturally feel depressed. In a relationship, only when two people put in each other, the relationship will last for a long time. If the investment in the relationship project is out of balance, the person who put in so much will no doubt be unable to get out, and will become more and more depressed. It's all normal. Do you still remember that when he pursued you, it happened on time every day, waiting for you under the enterprise building, just to pick you up and go home. At the beginning, you didn't want to.
What do you do if your boyfriend betrays? Hold on to his state of mind and love you
But after a long time, you will be touched by his behavior. At that time, everyone has nothing to say. In the beginning, when you were together, you felt that you couldn't forget those who were cared for.
But with the passage of time, everyone's feelings seem to speed up and disappear. Men gradually do not have the same passion for you as before, but also reflect the main performance of their own boredom.
Therefore, if you are twice as good to men, do you think that you are not good enough to men? Is it really that simple?
Actually, you still don't know men. After that, with men arguing with you, you become more and more emotional instability. Sometimes you don't know what's going on, that is, you feel uneasy for no reason. As soon as a man comes home, you will gradually argue with him, and finally the relationship will end. But what you don't remember is that the man did agree with you to break up. At that moment, you can't believe it.
In fact, the decision-making of men must have been carefully considered.
You need to understand that men are objective little animals, aiming at everything is targeted, just as the pursuit of you is the same thing, you don't feel hard to believe, you just lack the courage to face the reality.
Why do men want to break up?
Love is the result of the same sex repulsion. People will be attracted to different people, but there is no way to have a long-term relationship with the other party. When men first know you, it's your reproductive value that attracts men
What is reproductive use value? It is a woman's high use value, stature, appearance, diploma, all of which are your high use value. Men will feel that your high use value will definitely help me to produce benefits.
After that, my descendants will inherit your high use value, and he will pursue you crazily. Women are sentimental animals. They generally think that it is good for them to see such a man.
You will naturally be moved, then at the moment the man's desire to conquer is gone, he will feel that he has already got you. The following is love, when a man after you, then to do is to master you.
Because you used to be attracted to him. Gradually, when men quarrel with you, that is, your temptation is reduced. You only want to flirt with men, but you forget one thing, that is to improve yourself.
Because he has a good command of you, you are very ordinary to him. But with the change of his attitude towards you, your good temper is gone.
The two walked into the street where they broke up. So how can we retain such a relationship after we master the reason why men break up?
In September last year, I met something like this: Lingling is a 28 year old girl with her own job and good looks. In addition, she has a boyfriend who has been in love for five years.
But this relationship finally failed to enter the temple of marriage. Because both of them have their own jobs, the normal situation is to go home to eat together in their spare time, and their feelings are becoming more and more unstable. After Lingling's business went bankrupt, Lingling stayed at home. She wanted to take good care of her boyfriend. But every time she saw her boyfriend coming home so late, her mentality became more and more manic. Finally, her boyfriend made a clear break-up with him.
Lingling was very flustered for a moment. She didn't know what to do, so she found me.
In fact, the problem of this relationship is emotional instability, which is quite serious. You need to know whether men like reasonable women or not. If you want to keep men, there is no doubt that you need to change the status quo, especially the external factors of the status quo.
You say you get angry when you see a man. In fact, it's because you put all your eyes on a man. Starting from today, moderately look for your personal hobbies and do whatever you want. You can find that your high use value is not only repaired, but also men will continue to be attracted by you again. Is it easy to retain inconvenience? Sometimes people love the other side very much and neglect to treat themselves well. Only when you love yourself well can you be loved by others!