In today's society, where love and marriage are at random, many couples choose to "try love before marriage" to temper their feelings. Cohabitation before marriage can not only further master the other party, but also promote the emotion between them. But the couple cohabitation Life Association will appear some matters needing attention, if you never know, then quickly look over, don't let the emotion submerge in this kind of matters needing attention.
(notes for couples to live together before marriage)
Precautions 1. Correct the living attitude of cohabitation
Couples living together before marriage must be the end of their own deep love, in love and marriage at random today's social development, do not think that he loves you, he loves you, will have the responsibility to have no reason to tolerate you. If you have a clear understanding of the other party's standard and moral bottom line, and have a good command of your own direction, then it doesn't matter if you have a bone to pick in some eggs. With that attitude, you firmly believe that even if there is friction in people's communication, the differences will not become more and more intense.
2. Pay attention to the privacy protection of the other party
Even if we are lovers, even if we live together, we have nothing to say every day, but don't forget that we are still a separate individual. Give the other party more indoor space, pay attention to the privacy protection of the other party, and don't feel that you should know everything about him. Everyone has some secrets of their own, which is not strange, and there is no contradiction between this and everyone's feelings.
Note 3. Don't talk about breaking up
There are some couples who like to break up for no reason. Why? Because you talk about breaking up all day long, it will make the other party feel that you don't pay so much attention to this feeling. Otherwise, why don't you care about the other party's experience and say it casually?
4. Mutual tolerance and accommodation
When couples live together, on the one hand, they can further master the other side, and on the other hand, they can also promote each other's emotions. In the period of cohabitation, couples will deal with a big difficulty, that is the temperament running in period. If you have a good temperament in the running in period, then cohabitation before marriage will set the stage for getting married. But if you have a bad temperament in the running in period, then cohabitation before marriage will break up sooner or later. Therefore, during the period of cohabitation, couples should ensure mutual tolerance, mutual accommodation and more empathy. Correct the mentality of cohabitation (refer to Article 1) and have a good relationship!
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