My boyfriend loved a girl for a long time, but later he gave up waiting for her to be with me. The girl often actively contacts her boyfriend, and she has a sense of inexplicable pride in front of me. Although my boyfriend said that the person I love most now is me, I still care. How can I defend my feelings and keep my boyfriend's heart
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I have read "perfect" and "don't take" and benefited a lot. I'm 25 years old, 158CM; my boyfriend is 25 years old, 175cm, two average. Fall in love for three months, MV I higher than him, two people plan to see each other recently, parents show long choice. Your boyfriend is very kind to you, with high emotional concentration. At present, I'm puzzled to ask, please Huazhen give me a new move.
My boyfriend loved a girl for many years before. That woman cried and asked why she didn't have more of these before we fell in love. My boyfriend told me the truth. I told him, if you want to think well, naturally you need to go, because it's not easy for me to keep you.
My boyfriend shows that the past is long gone and wants to have a good relationship with me from the beginning. My MV is higher than that girl, but they have a lot of friends. They usually go to play, get together and take me with them. Obviously, I feel that the girl has a sense of inexplicable pride when she sees me. The girl knows that he has a goal and will continue to contact him often.
I feel that my boyfriend still regards her as a key friend. I once saw her boyfriend pay close attention to her and praise her. I have shown that I care about it, and he has also repeatedly told me that he hopes that he loves me now. Sister Huazhen, I don't expect that girl to happen in our daily life, but it's too difficult to understand, so I don't know what to do.
Response from Xinmu emotional teacher Huazhen:
To reduce Pu (in other words, to explode others' PU) is to raise the expectation of the other party from the source. He will have a sense of pride when he enjoys the salary of the God of high coldness with you. He will not be able to accept to be a worshiper in other people's side, and everyone's relationship will be more stable.
For that girl, she has a sense of inexplicable pride. In fact, it is based on an imagination that she can get your man back. At this time, you just need to be tolerant and act.
Actually, how to implement it? We have talked about how to pop up girls' Pu before. Now, we have two processes to fill in how to let your boyfriend stand here
1、 Pop the other side's PU.
Girls must remember this sentence: "you are my God, why do you want to be someone else's spare tire?" in fact, to this problem, we can add another sentence: "if I am her, you will undoubtedly want to be with you even if you chase me. Why does she keep you waiting for so many years? In fact, it is because she feels that she can find something stronger."
2、 Let the other side do it first.
Say to your boyfriend: "I don't know why she will have a sense of inexplicable pride when she sees me, because I feel she is very good."
For that girl, you can hook out her inner anger. It's better for your boyfriend to see her say something about you and make him come to you.
Everyone has a first tease cheap psychological state, your boyfriend see her first tease, you are weak and small, of course, will stand here to you.
If the above method is successful, I firmly believe that my boyfriend will stay with you more firmly. In addition to reducing their own Pu, the other side of the explosion of PU, to successfully retain the heart of her boyfriend.
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