摘要:男友以前喜欢一个女孩很久,但后来放弃等她跟我在一起了。那女孩经常主动联系男友,在我面前还有种莫名的优越感。虽然男友说现在爱的人是我,但我还是会介意。我该如何捍卫爱情,挽回男友的心呢?网友情感咨询:现已拜读《完美》和《别拿》,受益匪浅。我24岁,身高158cm;男朋友26岁,身高175cm,两人均处。恋爱三个月,mv我高于他,两人计划最近见双方父母表示长择。男友对我很好,感情浓度

男友之前喜爱一个女孩好长时间,但之后舍弃等她跟我在一起了。那女孩常常积极联络男友,在我眼前也有种莫名的自豪感。尽管男友说如今最爱的人就是我,但我依然会在意。我该怎样保卫感情,挽留男友的心呢?

网民情感咨询:

已经捧读《完美》和《别拿》,获益匪浅。我25岁,个子158cm;男朋友25岁,个子175cm,两平均处。谈恋爱三个月,mv 我高过他,两个人方案近期见彼此爸爸妈妈表明长择。男友对你很好,情感浓度值高。目前一困惑问提,请花镇给我出新招。

男友之前喜爱一女生好多年,那个女人在大家谈恋爱前期,曾哭着问起为何不会再多这些她,男朋友属实跟我说。我告诉他,你自己要想好,自然你需要走因为我不容易留你。

男朋友表明以往早已以往,想从头开始与我好好地的。我的mv比那女孩高,可是俩人有很多一同盆友,平常也会去玩,聚会活动,也会带上我。显著觉得那女孩见我有一种莫名的自豪感,那女孩了解他有目标还会继续常常联络他。

我感觉男朋友還是把她当较为关键的盆友,曾不经意见到\/信男友对她关注点赞评价。我表明很在意,他也一再告知希望这方面石块落地式,他如今爱的就是我。花镇姐,不期待那女孩发生在我们的日常生活中,但了解太难了,因此不清楚该怎么办。

情感导师出新招:减少pu挽留男友的方式

心木情感老师花镇回应:

减少pu(换句话说爆他人的pu),从源头上而言便是拉高另一方的期待值。他在你这儿享有到高冷男神的工资待遇,会有一种自豪感,就没法接纳在他人那边做供奉者了,大家的关联就会更为平稳。

对于那一个女生,她自身有一种莫名的自豪感,实际上是根据一种想象,感觉自身可以把你的男人抢回来,这时候你只需宽容大度装可伶就可以了。

实际如何实行呢?大家以前说过如何爆女生的pu,如今大家填补上如何让男朋友站到你这里,有两个流程:

一、爆另一方的pu。

女孩们一定要记好这句话:“你是我的男神为何要去做他人的备用胎?”实际到这个难题上还能够再再加上一句:“如果我是她得话,你追我还毫无疑问就想要和你在一起,为何她要使你等这么多年?实际上是由于她感觉能寻找更强的吧。”

二、让另一方先撩。

对你的男朋友说:“不清楚为何她看到我就会有一种莫名的自豪感,因为我感觉她挺好的。”

对那个姑娘你能把她内心的肝火勾出去,最好是使你男朋友见到她讲了你几句,使他站到你这里来。

每个人都有一个先撩者贱的心理状态,你男朋友见到她先撩,你又弱弱小小的,当然就会站到你这里了。

之上的方法假如实行成功得话,坚信男友会更为坚定不移地跟你在一起。减少自身pu的另外,爆另一方的pu,取得成功地挽留男友的心。

My boyfriend loved a girl for a long time, but later he gave up waiting for her to be with me. The girl often actively contacts her boyfriend, and she has a sense of inexplicable pride in front of me. Although my boyfriend said that the person I love most now is me, I still care. How can I defend my feelings and keep my boyfriend's heart

Internet users' emotional consultation:

I have read "perfect" and "don't take" and benefited a lot. I'm 25 years old, 158CM; my boyfriend is 25 years old, 175cm, two average. Fall in love for three months, MV I higher than him, two people plan to see each other recently, parents show long choice. Your boyfriend is very kind to you, with high emotional concentration. At present, I'm puzzled to ask, please Huazhen give me a new move.

My boyfriend loved a girl for many years before. That woman cried and asked why she didn't have more of these before we fell in love. My boyfriend told me the truth. I told him, if you want to think well, naturally you need to go, because it's not easy for me to keep you.

My boyfriend shows that the past is long gone and wants to have a good relationship with me from the beginning. My MV is higher than that girl, but they have a lot of friends. They usually go to play, get together and take me with them. Obviously, I feel that the girl has a sense of inexplicable pride when she sees me. The girl knows that he has a goal and will continue to contact him often.

I feel that my boyfriend still regards her as a key friend. I once saw her boyfriend pay close attention to her and praise her. I have shown that I care about it, and he has also repeatedly told me that he hopes that he loves me now. Sister Huazhen, I don't expect that girl to happen in our daily life, but it's too difficult to understand, so I don't know what to do.

Response from Xinmu emotional teacher Huazhen:

To reduce Pu (in other words, to explode others' PU) is to raise the expectation of the other party from the source. He will have a sense of pride when he enjoys the salary of the God of high coldness with you. He will not be able to accept to be a worshiper in other people's side, and everyone's relationship will be more stable.

For that girl, she has a sense of inexplicable pride. In fact, it is based on an imagination that she can get your man back. At this time, you just need to be tolerant and act.

Actually, how to implement it? We have talked about how to pop up girls' Pu before. Now, we have two processes to fill in how to let your boyfriend stand here

1、 Pop the other side's PU.

Girls must remember this sentence: "you are my God, why do you want to be someone else's spare tire?" in fact, to this problem, we can add another sentence: "if I am her, you will undoubtedly want to be with you even if you chase me. Why does she keep you waiting for so many years? In fact, it is because she feels that she can find something stronger."

2、 Let the other side do it first.

Say to your boyfriend: "I don't know why she will have a sense of inexplicable pride when she sees me, because I feel she is very good."

For that girl, you can hook out her inner anger. It's better for your boyfriend to see her say something about you and make him come to you.

Everyone has a first tease cheap psychological state, your boyfriend see her first tease, you are weak and small, of course, will stand here to you.

If the above method is successful, I firmly believe that my boyfriend will stay with you more firmly. In addition to reducing their own Pu, the other side of the explosion of PU, to successfully retain the heart of her boyfriend.

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