In the emotion, men and women are the same, when they meet the real care about people, will spare no effort to invest. And retention is the most expected thing to do when you are in pain. Only in the future can you return to the previous situation and get a sense of belonging again. What kind of mental state do you need to retain your boyfriend to succeed?
(the right psychological state to succeed in retaining an ex boyfriend)
1. It's unreasonable
When your boyfriend clearly proposes to break up, you should not say too much, like a chatterbox, you should quietly listen to what he said, and then don't speak, so that after all this of course, you go home and make noise, but don't show your unreasonable in front of him. At the moment, the man will also think, why is she so rational? Why As long as you are not unreasonable, we will continue to intersect, don't break the only intersection.
2. Reduce the need for boyfriends
Women are the same. They like to hear their boyfriends say that they are kind to them. Sometimes when they ask once, they will still respond to you attentively. But after breaking up, you need to use short message or telephone to ask: you choose to break up with me, do you not love me!? I love you very much! Now he doesn't want to talk to you very much, why do you want to ask at this juncture that you don't want to listen? That always makes him feel that you need him very much, and you don't show your obvious sense of need blindly. (Please add teacher's letter for emotional questions)
You should be natural and unrestrained, let him know that you live very well, you should let him think back, you always think of your happy side.
3. Give yourself a big bonus
A man usually gives a woman a big bonus before chasing her. Because all the melons that he can't get are sweet, he will give her a deduction after catching up. After having sex, he feels that she is not easy to be faithful to herself. So what should you do in order to gain more points for yourself? First, keep the brand image clean and tidy, don't let others look lazy and slovenly. Second, you should persevere in the pursuit of beauty. You don't have to feel good all the time and don't make any changes to make yourself look better. Finally, you need to create a sense of hierarchy. You need to let them see you like an unknown person The amount of that, has been producing a different surprise, such a woman, who will be unable to stop.