摘要:聊天冷场急救话题有哪些?此文主要告诉大家聊天的方法,解决你们的聊天问题,一步一步来,没有正确的聊天方法,女生怎么愿意和你走下去?(重点在后面)如果你有以下的问题:1.如果你不会聊天,经常找不到话题,聊着聊着就死机了!2.如果你分手了,想要挽回爱情追回女友!3.如果你有喜欢的

聊天冷场急救话题有哪些?此文主要告诉大家聊天的方法,解决你们的聊天问题,一步一步来,没有正确的聊天方法,女生怎么愿意和你走下去?(重点在后面)如果你有以下的问题:1.如果你不会聊天,经常找不到话题,聊着聊着就死机了!2.如果你分手了,想要挽回爱情追回女友!3.如果你有喜欢的人不知道怎么追求,不知道怎么把她约出来?

我是昊哥,是起点恋爱团队的主要负责人,现在主要帮助兄弟们解决三大情感问题:如何聊天!挽回女友!追到女神!如果你有以上的问题,那么请直接获取我的,点击,把你现在的问题困惑一次性在上发给我,我直接帮你分析情况,解决问题!

同时,我也会收集很多女生喜欢的聊天话题和聊天约会技巧,发在我朋友圈里,可以加上学习。(如果出现天界不上的情况,可以点击我的头像和我私聊,将你的号发给我,让我来加你)很多兄弟发现加了女生以后,完全处于脑子空的状态,和女生聊什么?往哪里聊?女生喜欢什么话题?如何邀约?如何确定关系?

这一系列的问号就像泰山压顶一样,笼罩住了大家,甚至是和女生聊了一个礼拜左右,关系毫无突破,最后女生说了一句话话:你会找到更好的女生,我们不适合。以下很多兄弟们日常的聊天截选:当你被女生拒绝以后,你会陷入严重的自我否定当中,质疑自己是不是天生就是被女生拒绝的料。

其实,很多男生都跟上面图聊天一样,遇到喜欢的女生,恨不得每时每刻都和女生聊天,能天天黏在一起。一旦喜欢上对方,就把所有的时间、精力、金钱与爱意都表达给女生,对女生嘘寒问暖,早安晚安。自己把自己都感动了,女生却说:“我和你只能做朋友。”

本质上,不能怪女生对你没感觉,而是你压根给不了她想要的感觉。那女生口中这个感觉,是什么呢?是有趣!我们思考一下,你每天问吃了吗,在干嘛,女生会觉得有趣吗?肯定不会。其实女生拒绝的不是你这个人,而是拒绝了你追求她的方式,拒绝了无聊的聊天模式,除了没感觉,还让人心生厌烦。

本质上的问题就是:方法不对,努力白费。聊天技巧反射出来的就是一个人的情商,通过聊天,能让女生觉得舒服觉得和你聊天有趣,觉得你能调动她的情绪,点点滴滴的累积女生的好感,最后芳心暗许。

很多兄弟都是典型的直线思维聊天,即使女生反应好,也只会继续问问题,问到女生烦,女生天生就是感性的,更多的是看中情绪体验。不是她不给你机会,而是你只会问问题,直线聊天,女生就只能给你贴上直男的标签。去寻找能给她带来感觉的男人。不会聊天其实就是调动女生情绪的能力不足,而不是女生拒绝。如果不解决不会聊天,别说现在你在追求的这个女生了,就算再遇到100个女生,结果也是一样的,会不断重复同样的结局。

如果你觉得老师说的对,想跟着老师学习更多的聊天技巧约会技巧的话,可以直接加到我的,点击我的里也有一些有趣的聊天记录,很多有趣的聊天话题以及一些可复制性话题,以及一些约会技巧,可以加上看看老师是怎么聊天的,老师都聊了哪些话题!(如果加不上我的,那你可以点击我的头像在这个软件上私聊我,把你的号发给我,我来加你!)

今天给大家带来的,便是几招十分实用的聊天技巧。

1、非正常逻辑聊天法

什么叫非正常逻辑聊天法?比如说和女生聊天的时候

女:你的朋友圈里好多美女啊。

正常的回答是,还好,没有啦,说完之后场面便会一度尴尬。所以面对这种“送命题”你应该更加机智

比如你可以坏坏的说:你这样是在间接夸自己是美女,这么坏的吗?或者可以更坏一点,说:还好啦,不多不多,你是第100个,哈哈。不知道你注意没,在平时的时候,一些俏皮的、出人意料的回答总是会带来极为优秀的气氛效果。

非正常逻辑聊天法便是运用了这样的原理,让你的回答超乎对方的意料,从而让她对你产生兴趣。首先,你要运用这种技巧,就要保证自己有着足够的幽默感,这是前提,不然你哪来那么多的俏皮话可说?好了,拥有了前提,下面就可以开始实战了。

2、钓鱼聊天法

钓鱼聊天精髓只有六个字:先结论后原因。人都会有好奇心,尤其是跟自己相关的事情,所以聊天时你可以先说结论,自然会引发女生好奇,从而引导她通过不断的对你提问,不断的延续话题,不断的表达自我。

例:

男:我觉得你特像猫(先说结论,引起好奇)

女:为啥这样说

男:哈哈,说了你不许打我(卖关子,加大好奇力度)

女:不打你

女:不说我可要打你了

男:因为你表明看起来很乖,但内心有坚定的想法,你会去追求自己喜欢的东西,不会在意眼前能轻而易举得到的东西(释放好奇)

女:哈哈哈,说的对极了,你很了解我嘛

男:不不不,这是我算命20多年的经验,积累出来的第六感(幽默风趣)

女:哈哈,突然好害怕,以后不会欺负我吧

3、情绪聊天法

其实和女生聊天是不需要你上知天文下知地理的,你只需要掌握很重要的一点,那就是不管是多小的事情,聊出来也都要带有情绪。有科学家研究表示,在面对面的交流中,女生表达的内容占到了7%,语调占到了56%,肢体语言占到了37%。可以看出,女生们更是看重情绪沟通的,和内容无关。因为在女生看来,就算对事件本身并不感兴趣,但是情绪对应上了,她都会很乐意继续和你聊天。我们在建立合适的聊天氛围之后,要寻求延伸话题,把女生的情绪导向你的三观、你的个人魅力或是个人故事上,从而让她对你产生兴趣,愿意往后跟你有更多的交集。

举一个简单的例子:

例一:

当你初次跟女生见面的时候,如果女生对你感觉还不错,她可能会问你一些问题。

比如:

“感觉你还蛮显小的,你今年多大了呀?”

一般的男生都会这样回答:“不小了,都28了。”(直接而没有情绪的互动,其结果就是直接结束了话题)

我们需要抓住女生对于你的兴趣点做一些延伸,你可以回复她:

—“你猜我多大了?”(抓住了女生的情绪点,开始进行互动,引导女生投资)

—“看不出来啊,20?”(女生开始输出价值,并且进入你的框架,被你所引导)

—“哈哈,再过几天就是我18岁的生日了,你准备送我什么礼物呀?”

建立轻松的聊天氛围,送不送礼物不重要,重要的是通过年龄这个话题,引申出来了新的话题——礼物,可以持续的进行聊天,从而产生更多的交集。

例二:

如果女生对你并没有兴趣,只是进行了一些简单的交流,甚至有些怠慢打压你,那么我们也可以尝试用情绪聊天法进行沟通:比如你身材有一些瘦,女生说:“你好瘦啊”。(情绪点在你的身材上,甚至有些嫌弃,开始从你的自我价值上筛选你)

面对这样的问题,很多男生会说“没有啊,我不瘦啊”。很容易陷入一个为了证明自己而去反驳或者输出话题的陷阱,然后话题就被终止了。???????其实,在面对女生看似不太友善的话题时,我们可以尝试这样回答:—“姑娘好眼力,在下隐藏的这么深都被你发现了,这样的话有机会我可以带你环游世界啊~”—“那你怎么带我环游世界啊?”—“风大的时候就可以啊,我这么瘦,风一吹就能把我吹得老远呢,但是具体去哪旅游我就控制不了啦~”

不要去试图解释说明些什么,顺着女生的情绪延伸下去,并且提供新的话题点——环游世界,对于女生来说,旅游是再好不过的话题了。并且引导女生产生疑问:瘦跟环游世界有什么关系?当她开始被你的话题吸引,你就成功地延伸了话题,同时也使女生因为你们而有了情绪波动。

只有学会了正确的聊天方法,这个女生才会愿意跟你聊天,如果你没有一个正确的聊天方法,那么这个女生是不愿意跟你聊天的,所以这就是为什么你聊着聊着女孩子就消失了,女孩子就不见了,其次聊天的时候话题是非常重要的,但是有很多兄弟现在因为上班,因为工作忙,很少去接触女孩子,性格比较内向,朋友比较少社交能力不是很强,面对女孩子没有经验,你和女孩子去聊天的时候呢,根本找不到话题,不知道怎么去开口,不知道怎么去开场白,不知道怎么和女生延续的话题。

如果你被我说中了,可以直接加到我的,点击我的里也有一些有趣的聊天记录,很多有趣的聊天话题以及一些可复制性话题,以及一些约会技巧,可以加上看看老师是怎么聊天的,老师都聊了哪些话题!(如果加不上我的,那你可以点击我的头像在这个软件上私聊我,把你的号发给我,我来加你!)

4、开放式提问法

封闭式的问题一般而言是女生能够直接用“是”、“不是”或者一个词来回答的问题,而查户口一般而言都是由连续的封闭式问题造成的。

举例来说:

如果你问女生吃了没,女生说吃了。话题就这样被终结了。

你喜欢猫么,女生说还行。话题就这样断了。

正确示范:

“你平时都有什么兴趣爱好?”这样对方的回答选择就变的多了,可以是旅游,读书,跳舞,王者荣耀。

“你下班都喜欢干嘛?”对方的回答空间很多,比如看书,看电影,喝咖啡,逛街。

“你喜欢什么动物?”对方可以回答,猫猫狗狗,大象,长颈鹿等等。

这样话题立刻打开了。开放式提问,其实很简单,就是避开闭合性提问,而是让女生自己去想象,话题往往就是这么被打开的。

5、话题延伸法

顾名思义,不是不断地开启新的话题,直到聊死;而是在一个话题上去做扩展和延伸,从而达到有无尽的话题可以聊。这个方法的重点就在于要有丰富的想象力与发散思维能力,抓住女生话题提供的信息后,用它去扩展话题。这样你就永远不需要担心聊天聊不下去,因为你永远有话题。什么叫发散性思维?

举个例子:平时我们是不是经常会聊到吃饭这个话题?“吃饭”这个话题你能联想到什么?

1.一说起吃饭,我就想起老妈做的回锅肉了

2.是不是经常吃零食

3.现在减肥,都不敢大吃大喝了

4.本来不饿,结果一说吃饭肚子就饿了

5.会不会做饭,会做饭可以夸女生贤惠,不会做饭,可以让她叫师傅,传授厨艺

再举个例子:我们在聊天中经常会涉及到的一个词叫小仙女,那么发散性的去想:

1.现在仙女下凡了,你也跟着一起下凡;

2.其实你的真实身份是玉皇大帝,专门过来惩罚她(让她伸出小手,打一下手心)

3.仙女都是喝露水的,她和别的仙女不一样,她喝花露水。

4.小仙女是在天上的,天上不止只有仙女,还有仙童;

5.你可以把女生比喻为仙女,也可以把自己比喻为仙童;

6.但过程你们走散了,现在需要缘分,让你们再次相遇。

这就是发散性思维,以一个关键词为中心点,以逆向、顺向、横向或组合式去围绕这个关键词思考所有的问题,简单来说就是:从一个点,向四面八方散开去的思维。通过一个话题,进而延伸出很多话题,当你利用这种思维进行练习,掌握这种思维,很快你将会发现:你和女生有聊不完的话题,话题源源不断的从你的脑袋当中涌出来。那么,如果你不会聊天的话,怎么才能让你喜欢的女生和你在一起,怎么才能打动她呢,想知道的兄弟可以加,在上把你的具体情况跟我说一下,我好好的帮你分析,给你提一些适合你的建议。

聊天冷场急救话题有哪些?我是你们的老朋友昊哥,在我的帮助下找到女朋友、挽回女朋友、拿下真爱的兄弟已经有上万人。如果你有任何情感问题,或者你现在面对女生失败了不知道该怎么办了,那么,你可以直接加到我的,或者点击我的头像关注我,把你的具体情感困惑和我说一下,我会详细的帮你分析!

What are the topics of cold first aid? This article mainly tells you the way to chat, to solve your chat problem, step by step, there is no right way to chat, how girls are willing to go with you? (focus on the back) if you have the following questions: 1. If you can't chat, often can't find the topic, chatting will crash! 2. If you break up, you want to save your love and get your girlfriend back! 3. If you have someone you like who doesn't know how to pursue and how to ask her out?

I'm brother Hao, the main person in charge of the starting point love team. Now I mainly help my brothers solve three emotional problems: how to chat! Save your girlfriend! Go after the goddess! If you have the above problems, then please get mine directly, click and send your current problems to me at one time. I will help you analyze the situation and solve the problems directly!

聊天冷场急救话题,跟女生聊天技巧

At the same time, I will also collect a lot of chat topics and chat dating skills that girls like and send them to my circle of friends for learning. (if the sky is not on the situation, you can click on my avatar to chat with me, send your number to me, let me add you.) many brothers found that after adding girls, they were completely in a state of empty mind, what to chat with girls? Where to talk? What topics do girls like? How to invite? How to determine the relationship?

This series of question marks, just like the top of the mountain, enveloped everyone, even chatted with the girls for about a week, but there was no breakthrough in the relationship. Finally, the girls said one thing: you will find better girls, we are not suitable. The following are the daily chatting excerpts of many brothers: when you are rejected by a girl, you will fall into a serious self denial, questioning whether you are born to be rejected by a girl.

In fact, many boys chat with the above picture. When they meet the girl they like, they want to chat with the girl all the time and stick together every day. Once you like each other, you will express all your time, energy, money and love to the girls. Good morning and good night. I moved myself, but the girl said, "you and I can only be friends."

In essence, you can't blame the girl for not feeling you, but you can't give her the feeling she wants. What is the feeling in the girl's mouth? It's fun! Let's think about it. Do you think it's interesting for girls to ask whether they have eaten or what they are doing? Definitely not. In fact, what a girl refuses is not you, but the way you pursue her and the boring chat mode. In addition to not feeling it, it's boring.

The essence of the problem is: the wrong method, efforts in vain. Chat skills reflect a person's EQ, through chat, can make girls feel comfortable, feel interesting to chat with you, think you can mobilize her mood, little by little accumulation of girl's favor, finally heart secretly.

Many brothers are typical of straight-line thinking chat, even if the girls respond well, they will only continue to ask questions. When they ask about girls' annoyance, girls are naturally perceptual, and they are more interested in emotional experience. It's not that she doesn't give you opportunities, but that you can only ask questions and chat in a straight line, so girls can only label you as straight men. To find a man who can make her feel. Not being able to chat is actually a lack of ability to mobilize the emotions of girls, not a refusal of girls. If you don't solve the problem, you can't chat, not to mention the girl you are pursuing now. Even if you meet another 100 girls, the result will be the same, and the same ending will be repeated.

If you think the teacher is right and want to learn more chat skills and dating skills from the teacher, you can directly add them to my, click my, there are also some interesting chat records, many interesting chat topics and some replicable topics, as well as some dating skills. You can also see how the teacher chats and what topics the teacher has talked about! (if you can't add mine, you can click my avatar to chat with me on this software, send your number to me, and I'll add you!)

聊天冷场急救话题,跟女生聊天技巧

What I bring you today are some very practical chat skills.

1. Abnormal logic chat method

What is abnormal logic chat? Like talking to girls

Woman: there are many beautiful women in your circle of friends.

The normal answer is, OK, no, after that, the scene will be embarrassed for a time. So you should be more tactful in the face of this kind of "giving proposition"

For example, you can say bad: you are indirectly boasting that you are a beautiful woman, so bad? Or even worse, say: OK, not much, not much, you are the 100th, ha ha. I don't know if you have noticed that in normal times, some witty and unexpected answers will always bring excellent atmosphere effect.

Abnormal logic chat method is the use of such a principle, so that your answer beyond the other party's expectations, so that she is interested in you. First of all, if you want to use this technique, you must ensure that you have enough sense of humor, which is the premise. Otherwise, how can you get so many jokes? Well, with the premise, we can start the actual combat.

2. Fishing and chatting

The essence of fishing chat has only six words: the conclusion first, then the reason. People will have curiosity, especially things related to themselves, so when chatting, you can say the conclusion first, which will naturally arouse the girl's curiosity, so as to guide her to constantly ask you questions, continue the topic and express herself.

Example:

Man: I think you look like a cat

Woman: why do you say that

Man: ha ha, you are not allowed to hit me

Woman: I don't want to hit you

Woman: I'm going to hit you

Man: because you show that you look good, but you have a firm idea in your heart. You will pursue what you like, and you won't care about what you can easily get in front of you

Woman: ha ha, that's right. You know me very well

Man: No, no, this is my sixth sense (humor) accumulated from more than 20 years of experience in fortune telling

Woman: ha ha, I'm so scared. I won't bully you in the future

聊天冷场急救话题,跟女生聊天技巧

3. Emotional chat

In fact, you don't need to know astronomy and geography when chatting with girls. You just need to master a very important point, that is, no matter how small things are, you have to be emotional when chatting. According to a study by some scientists, in face-to-face communication, the content expressed by girls accounts for 7%, the intonation accounts for 56%, and the body language accounts for 37%. It can be seen that girls pay more attention to emotional communication, which has nothing to do with the content. Because in a girl's opinion, even if she is not interested in the event itself, she will be happy to continue to chat with you when she is emotionally corresponding. After establishing an appropriate chat atmosphere, we should seek to extend the topic and direct the girl's emotions to your three outlooks, your personal charm or personal stories, so as to make her interested in you and willing to have more contact with you in the future.

Take a simple example

Example 1:

When you meet a girl for the first time, if she feels good about you, she may ask you some questions.

For example:

"I think you are quite small. How old are you this year?"

The average boy would answer like this: "no, it's 28." (the result of direct and non emotional interaction is to end the topic directly.)

We need to catch the girl's interest in you and do some extension. You can reply to her:

- "guess how old I am?" (seize the emotional points of girls, start to interact, and guide girls to invest)

- "can't see, 20?" (girls begin to export value, enter your framework, and be guided by you)

- "haha, I'll be 18 years old in a few days. What are you going to give me?"

It's not important to establish a relaxed chat atmosphere. The important thing is that through the topic of age, a new topic, gift, can continue to chat and produce more intersection.

Example 2:

If the girls are not interested in you, they just have some simple communication, and even neglect and suppress you, then we can also try to use emotional chat to communicate: for example, if you are thin, the girls say: "you are so thin.". (the emotional point is on your body, even some dislike, start to screen you from your self-worth)

Faced with such problems, many boys will say "no, I'm not thin.". It's easy to fall into the trap of refuting or outputting the topic in order to prove yourself, and then the topic is terminated. ??????? in fact, in the face of girls' seemingly unfriendly topic, we can try to answer like this: "girl has good eyesight, you have found the hidden depth, so I can take you around the world when I have the opportunity." - "then how can you take me around the world?" - "it's OK when the wind is strong. I'm so thin. The wind can blow me far away, but I can't control where to travel."

Don't try to explain something, extend along the girl's mood, and provide a new topic - around the world, for girls, tourism is the best topic. What's the relationship between being thin and traveling around the world? When she starts to be attracted by your topic, you can successfully extend the topic, and at the same time make the girl have emotional fluctuations because of you.

Only when you learn the right way to chat, the girl will be willing to chat with you. If you don't have a correct way to chat, the girl won't want to chat with you, so that's why when you chat, the girl will disappear, and the girl will disappear. Secondly, the topic is very important when chatting, but there are many brothers who are working now Because I'm busy with work, I seldom contact with girls, I'm introverted, I have few friends, and I don't have strong social skills. I have no experience with girls. When you chat with girls, you can't find a topic, don't know how to open your mouth, don't know how to make a prologue, and don't know how to continue the topic with girls.

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4. Open questioning

Generally speaking, closed questions are questions that girls can directly answer with "yes", "no" or one word, while household registration check is generally caused by continuous closed questions.

For example:

If you ask a girl if she ate, she said she did. The topic is