The "cold violence" at home has seriously harmed the psychological state and spirit of the victims. We try our best to communicate with words in our daily communication, keep our brain calm and give a lot of flexibility to the other party, so that we can get a lot of gentle treatment from the other side. Black and blue not only comes from the body, but also from the heart. In the case of serious domestic violence, everyone can see sufficient direct evidence and thoroughly accuse and punish the perpetrators. However, in today's social status quo, there are still a lot of domestic violence, but we have not seen and understand, that is, domestic cold violence. It is an indisputable fact that many people have experienced or have been subjected to cold violence at home.
Domestic cold violence is generally manifested in the following aspects:
1. Independence, you are not allowed to have intimate contact with other family members, but also cooperate with other family members to independent you;
2. Often destroy you in front of your family;
3. Interfere with your wealth and consumption;
4. Silent solution to all your communication;
5. Even at home, they should avoid communicating in the same indoor space;
6. Reject or perfunctorily the regulations on the life of husband and wife that you have clearly put forward
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This kind of individual behavior, which is based on indifference, neglect, connivance, strangeness and indifference, leads to the infringement and damage of the other party's mental and psychological state. As a result, the damage caused by domestic cold violence is hidden but extremely harmful.
Compared with the traditional definition of domestic violence, cold violence is more targeted. It is intended to make the other party feel neglected and despised, resulting in their mental panic and panic. As a result, the victim's temperament is more and more sensitive, sensitive, suspicious, depressed, and often in a lonely state of mind. Cold domestic violence has become the key killer of contemporary family and marriage. The mental harm caused by it is no less than the damage caused by traditional domestic violence and marriage derailment.
The body will also be under strong mental work pressure for a long time. It is very easy for the body to suffer from headache, insomnia and other psychosomatic diseases, and even commit suicide and injury due to long-term mental devastation. In addition, the family atmosphere of cold violence is extremely harmful to the development of children, especially in minors.
The "cold violence" in the family makes the victims suffer great trauma in spirit and the right of personal freedom, which makes many victims suffer from pain for a long time. It makes people anxious, unwilling to communicate with others, closed themselves, and even some due to long-term depression. Some even lose the courage to survive and go to death. This is very dangerous to the perpetrators, to the children, to the family and to social development.
Women and men suffering from "cold violence" will suffer psychological harm. Most women will become more and more sensitive and easily excited in their mentality. They are often afraid of loneliness and seriously lack of physical and mental health, while boys are more and more suspicious, selfish, not confident and do not communicate with others. Physical wounds can heal, but mental wounds are not easy to heal.
Please keep in mind that if most of you can not consider the other party's special provisions, or if the provisions and requirements are incorrect, all kinds of problems will certainly accumulate in the long run. It will be filled with complaints and reprimands, ignored, protected and indifferent, and the left rear will cause the split of marriage life.