它指的是两人因某件事而造成 一个人的情绪忽然恶变而心态欠缺操纵造成 分手。根据这类方法，彼此的关联在使用价值和项目投资对比相对性均衡。在沒有大的使用价值差别的状况下，原来情感相对性平稳。
Lovers break up for a variety of reasons, and they can't forget their ex boyfriends, and even want to be compound. But not all breakups can be compound. Summarize the types of breakups that are most easy to compound. Apart from this, others are not necessarily not compound. It's just a little more difficult. We should consider them carefully.
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In fact, lovers who break up for this reason are more likely to compound
1. Misunderstanding breakup
For the compound type, it is very likely that most people have some misunderstandings. After the compound type, because of the previous breakup, we still have the possibility of breaking up. In addition to driving into a stable or completely broken connection, there are also some people who want to enter the infinite cycle of "break up compound break up compound".
Is it really not suitable for you to say that the separation and combination, the combination and separation are so constant that you are even suspicious? Therefore, some people summed up with a sentence: "after two people separated, the probability of compound type is 82%, but only 3% of them can achieve the right result after compound type. The reason for 97% of them to break up again is actually the same as the first time."
However, in a continuous cycle, it's not because you are inadequate, but if you don't deal with the first breakup problem, and put aside the breakup reason of the principle problem, other reasons can be dealt with, it's just that you never know the way.
2. Violent breakup
It refers to two people because of something caused by a person's mood suddenly vicious change and the lack of manipulation of mentality, resulting in the breakup. According to this kind of method, the correlation between each other is relatively balanced in use value and project investment. In the case of no big difference in use value, the original emotional relativity is stable.
But I don't know that because the party who is separated has made personal behavior that the party who breaks up can't accept, and the party who breaks up generally accumulates his mentality for a long time, it will completely break out after renting for some reason.
In fact, it's a way to vent your emotions. The breakup Party expects to carry out stock stop loss according to the breakup, reduce project investment and reduce the pain of this matter. The more serious level of breakup barriers will be reduced when the spirit of breakup party is gone.
3. Break up
I watched a video. The man felt handsome. The woman felt that she was very beautiful, even if she didn't have the other side, she could have a very good life.
The first day: boys are willing to play, women are willing to buy things;
The next day: boys are willing to play, women like to watch TV dramas;
The third day: boys feel that he can not actively beg for mercy, women feel that she can not actively beg for mercy;
Day n: the boy heard that the woman came to the blind date, and the woman felt that the man had already forgotten himself
That kind of situation often starts, because of anger, then no one wants to actively bow his head, until the two go further and further, until the emotion becomes eternal regret.
This kind of breakup, retention should be immediate, even if it is to say sorry, do the right thing, this period of emotion is very likely to be hidden.
4. Break up with your own mistakes
Everything has its own reasons and adverse effects. For example, you can't say which one is right. If you have to quarrel for a reason, you often find excuses for yourself to argue. It's just "because of you... Because of me"... The problem is that some people are obviously beyond reason, but they are not willing to actively recognize their own mistakes. He has been disturbing the other side completely unbearable: "how about you admit a mistake?"? I don't want to argue with you. Let's break up! "
5. Tired breakup
This kind of result is usually caused by the wrong handling of mentality among you. Two people often quarrel together, or they may be external reasons, such as foreign connections. Along with the change of time, your experience changes from good to tired, and then to devastation. In a word, there are usually some elements that cause the negative emotions of the other party.
The best way to prevent tiredness breakup is to "break up" properly. You don't have to contact her for a period of time. You can relieve tiredness according to the time. During the breakup period, you can learn how to chat easily.
This kind of chat topic can make you feel at ease and express your love for her immediately. Therefore, you should practice your chat skills and adjust your mental state. Is it not enough to know and take care of her? Do not give them a sense of happiness, in order to give her a relaxed state of mind in the case of complex, do not let her feel very tired with you.