How to save love? Many girls often complain to me: "he didn't return my message and didn't answer my phone all day. Teacher, please help me to analyze. Is it possible that he is with other women? \Teacher, today we had another fight. But I can't figure out why he used to coax me every time, but this time he didn't coax me. Doesn't he love me anymore? \"I can fully understand that when you care about a person, you can't help but want to know all about him. But sometimes, with a strong subjective emotion and the speculation, not only let you live very hard, but also hurt the person you love, leave an indelible stain on your relationship. Therefore, when the relationship comes to an end, the tragic result of breaking up is expected.
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My name is Yixin. I'm 23 years old. My boyfriend Liu Yichen, 25 years old, and his friend have jointly opened a training school. Liu Yichen and I met at a fraternity when we were a freshman. We have been together for six years now. After graduation, we went to Qingdao to develop each other's career. In order to reduce the pressure of life, we began to live together. The days of cohabitation are extremely sweet and happy for us. Although we may quarrel over trifles in our life, it does not affect our feelings, on the contrary, it gives us a deeper understanding of life.
Liu Yichen loves me very much and takes good care of me. I like spicy food. He learns a lot of my favorite dishes on the Internet and makes them for me. He will tolerate all my willfulness and temper. Every festival will buy me gifts and make me a little surprise. Liu Yichen is very careful, because I am not in good health, every physiological period will have severe dysmenorrhea, so he always cooks hot milk for me a few days before my physiological period, supervises me to soak my feet, drinks hot water on time, and tries to alleviate my pain as much as possible.
Of course, I am also very good to him. I will save money to buy things that Liu Yichen likes and care about his life. In the two years when we lived together, I almost never did housework, because in my opinion, girls have to do housework, which is the old idea of the feudal period. Now we advocate women's independence. As long as I can be economically independent, I'm enough. The rest of the housework is Liu Yichen! Because we have been together for a long time, recently our parents began to plan our marriage, hoping that we can have our own home as soon as possible. Just when I thought everything was getting better and better, there was something wrong with our relationship.
Liu Yichen's training school has gradually improved, with more and more students. However, due to the shortage of manpower, Liu Yichen often needs to work overtime in the school. In order to stabilize the existing students and expand the source of students, Liu Yichen also needs to spend a lot of time socializing with the school leaders. I understand that Liu Yichen's efforts are to give me a perfect wedding, but I can't stand him coming home often full of wine.
Therefore, I often nag with Liu Yichen, asking him not to drink so much wine, or looking for various reasons to let Liu Yichen go home and postpone social intercourse. Because of this, Liu Yichen said that I didn't understand and understand him. Instead of supporting him, I intervened in his career development, so we didn't speak for a long time.
About half a year later, several companies in Nanjing want to cooperate with Liu's training school, so Liu often has to run back and forth between Qingdao and Nanjing. But at this time, I rest at home. Liu Yichen is not at home every day, I feel very lonely, Liu Yichen must not love me, so I can not find time to accompany me. Therefore, I have to chat with Liu Yichen almost all the time. If he doesn't return to me in time, I will call him to ask about his itinerary, or even call him directly to see if he has someone else.
At first, Liu Yichen was willing to coax me patiently. Later, he became impatient. I think he has changed. He must have fallen in love with others. In order to find some "clues", I used all my resources to monitor him, and sometimes I would track him. Later, I secretly installed a location software in his mobile phone, so that I could see his daily action track directly from my mobile phone.
Paper can't hold fire. He found that I was watching him and had a big fight with me. He said that I'm becoming neurotic now. I don't understand his pain. On the contrary, I'm becoming more unreasonable. Hearing this, I couldn't control my pent up emotion any more. I yelled at him and said, "if you weren't so cold to me? If it wasn't for your bad attitude towards me? If it wasn't because you didn't always accompany me? How could I be like this? Do you really have someone else who is so angry? "
The reason for breaking up was that I wanted to go to school to work overtime with Liu Yichen, so I got off work early and bought his favorite food. As a result, as soon as I got to the office, I saw him talking and laughing with a female teacher. I seldom saw him so happy at home. My fire came up all of a sudden, directly rushed in, pointed at him is a scolding. Liu Yichen Leng Leng, did not wait for me to finish to pull me away.
Back home, Liu Yichen was unusually calm, he said: "you really let me down, you become I don't know you." I said angrily, "don't you know me? That's because your eyes are full of other women. I didn't expect you to have such a mind! " Listen to me say these, Liu Yichen is very angry, do not want to communicate with me. I said: "OK, then you can go to the woman to communicate! Let's break up! " He immediately turned around with his things and left.
After a few days, Liu Yichen has not been looking for me, and I also calm down, I feel really too much, feel very sorry. I called him to hope that he could forgive me. I kept apologizing, went to school to ask him to forgive me, and even asked his parents for help. However, he was very indifferent and determined to break up with me.
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The lack of women's attraction here is mainly manifested in two aspects: 1. Yixin puts all her energy into her feelings, thus giving up self-improvement, leading to the lack of women's charm; 2. Yixin blindly pays in her feelings but can't get return, which leads to self doubt, resulting in the lack of psychological sense of existence and security.
Many women are easily lost after falling in love, especially those with poor self-control. In a relationship, boys usually put in more at first, while women's investment rises in a parabola, which leads to the deeper and deeper depression in the relationship and makes them worry about gain and loss. Most women in love are like this. For love, they lose their circle of friends, give up their persistence, ideals, hobbies or work, and put all their thoughts on their boyfriends. They also place all their hopes and expectations on each other.
The so-called feelings have changed? His attitude towards you has changed, and his love for you is less? The fundamental reason is to put your value on a steep downward slope from the beginning, so the other party will not feel your own attraction in the back. In the end, boys can't stand losing value, unattractive you, and the shackles you give. It's inevitable to break up with you.
Yixin also made a serious mistake in her relationship: she had poor emotion management ability and interfered with each other's career and life. Women's sensibility in love will greatly increase their own charm, but women's excessive emotional, even if boys love this girl again, for a long time, such a relationship will also produce a sense of fatigue and oppression.
A stable relationship is to meet each other's needs and get along well. There are methods and skills to follow for a moment's comfort, but it is an ability to make a person comfortable with you for a long time, which needs to be learned. If you don't know how to get along with men better, please click Add Tutor (click and copy the tutor number, and then add it in the search). The tutor will teach you how to keep men and love. After the problem, Yixin not only can't communicate with her boyfriend well, but also takes a more wrong behavior: pestering.
The result of doing so can only make the woman more passive in the relationship, further increase her boyfriend's disgust for herself, and make her boyfriend feel that her decision to break up is correct, deepening her disappointment with women. We should pay attention to ways and means in everything. It is the same with saving a person or a relationship. Therefore, saving is not blind. If we take the wrong way, it will be counterproductive. Click Add Tutor (click and copy the tutor number, and then add it in the search), we will help you grasp the existing opportunities, turn the situation around, and let her come back to you!
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The purpose of disconnection is to give both sides a buffer time. Therefore, in view of Yixin's situation, she has a 10 day disconnection with her boyfriend. During this period, it can make the boys feel the free life they have been longing for for for a long time, and also further reduce the negative emotions towards Yixin. The time node of disconnection lies in