冷战后男人爱你的表现,如何挽回男友的心 After the cold war, men love you, how to save your boyfriend's heart
What are the ways men love you after the cold war? In the face of feelings, most people are afraid of breaking up. Once wanted to go to the end, the result is like a stranger. In the face of a huge sense of gap, it always makes us out of control, and even beg each other to come back with a humble attitude. We become so humble, self pity, just because we want each other to be able to remember the old love, back to their side. However, after several attempts, you find that the other party is not moved by it. Instead, the more they want to run away from you. Emotion itself has no reason to say, this thing is the pursuit of feeling. In fact, the idea in your mind at that time can't save your success. It often requires you to have the courage to do something contrary to the usual, so as to arouse the other party's interest in your understanding again, and then get close to you again.
So, what should we do? Next, teacher Bonnie will tell the girls how to recover according to different types of boys. I hope it can help you who are reading this article and point out the direction for your love. Hello everyone, I'm teacher Bonnie, the gold medal mentor of one love. I've been focusing on the emotional education industry for eight years. I have more than 30 emotional counselors with national psychological counselor qualification certificate, helping tens of thousands of students successfully recover their true love and repair their marriage. Mainly solve several emotional problems for you: love recovery, marriage repair, sniping true love, psychological reconstruction, gender warming, communication skills improvement, focus on the analysis of gender issues, teach you how to save your lover through actual combat, get true love.
I know that you, who will read this article carefully, must also want to find out what your so-called inappropriateness is and the real reason for breaking up. Please don't panic, we know you are at a loss, just want to try your best to keep him. But at this time, we can't think by ourselves, or even make the situation worse. Please click the green button to add a tutor (click and copy the tutor number, and then add it in the search). We will analyze your real problems for you one-on-one for free, and what your tutor really wants.
At the same time, through this article, plus the top 20 friends of the teacher, you can directly get a 3699 emotional gift package for free! Before I get to the point, I'd like to ask you a question: do you know what kind of predecessor you have? Most people only know about recovery, but they don't know the common types of predecessors. Today, I'm going to tell the girls how to make an effective recovery according to different types? First, let's see if your predecessors fall into these categories:
This type of predecessor, take the initiative to find you more likely to compound. In the process of love, they are characterized by attachment to their partner. To a large extent, they can't face the special situation alone and need to rely on their partner to help them realize their self-worth. This kind of people are very insecure and want someone around them all the time. Once separated from you, without contact, he will be very anxious. The model of dependent predecessors is sticky and not independent enough. After breaking up with a dependent ex, there may be two extremes
The first is that the former has a seamless connection with the new lover; the other is that he often keeps in touch with you, occasionally makes an appointment with you, and wants to make friends with you.
(1) If the ex finds a new lover, it means that he relies more on the new lover than you. In other words, Xinhuan can help him achieve success and give him enough sense of security.
But recovery is not impossible. As long as you can show more advantages than Xinhuan, he will come back to you. Because he depends on you more time than new love. By contrast, you know his needs better. In order to meet their own needs, he will take the initiative to restore your relationship.
(2) If your ex keeps in touch with you, that's better. He is willing to communicate with you, indicating that you have high value and meet part of his needs, which may be spiritual or material.
Most importantly, he can't find someone else to replace you now, which is your unique positive factor. You just need to maintain a friend relationship with him, show him your charm, and create inaccessibility. But don't overdo it. Remember, he's insecure. Slight unavailability will stimulate his desire to conquer and make him feel insecure. In order not to lose you completely, he is bound to take some good actions.
I know that you are very careful when you take the initiative to contact each time. You have summed up many rules and methods for many years. If you want to be dominant in every contact, please click the green button to add tutors (click and copy the tutor number, and then add in the search). We will tell you these methods, which can not only let you bring rhythm, but also restore the sweetness and fun when you are in love. ???????
This kind of type can also be called "new and old". They have an obvious characteristic, that is, it is easy to like a person, it is also easy to dislike. When I was with you, it was sweet at the beginning, but later I didn't have much interest in you, even betrayed you and looked for new people. In fact, they are still in their childhood. They are very interested in new people, things, and things, and they soon grow to like them. But as time goes on, the freshness is gone and the weariness begins.
Recovery method: it's hard to recover them, simple and easy. Now that they are not mature, you should seize this point to recover. For example, when he is with you, you are a gentle and clever image. After a period of time together, he said to you: "I have no feelings for you.". Then, when you are recovering, you can start from the following points:
(1) To change one's external image, one can change one's dressing style and turn it into intellectual and generous or refined and cool. When you show up again, you will attract his eyes.
(2) Enhance self-worth and make life colorful.
(3) Don't pay too much attention to his life, take back the investment in his feelings and raise his frame.
There is nothing more heartbreaking than the complete loss of him and the planned future. Is your future blueprint still around him? If it is, and you are willing to work hard to change for love, and you want to work hard for your future again, and you don't want to escape from the problem and lose him completely, now please click the green button to add a tutor (click and copy the tutor number, and add it in the search). The tutor will use our internal three-step rule of quick recovery to help you reshape yourself and quickly recover the heartless him. Basically, our students have regained happiness through this rule. What are you waiting for?
How tangled is a tangled predecessor? Their hearts are so soft that it's hard to make a decision. After breaking up, I still laugh with you one second and ignore you the next. A hot and cold attitude can drive the Redeemer crazy. You ask me, what are they thinking? I can't give an accurate answer, but I'm sure he must have feelings for you, and it's not shallow. If I don't give up on you, it doesn't mean I can get back together with you. They are entangled because your emotional problems are still unresolved.
Recovery method: in the face of tangled predecessors, you should come up with practical solutions, let him have confidence in your feelings. For example, I took over a trainee before. Her ex boyfriend was a typical tangled man. He proposed to break up, but kept his contact information. The trainee "never died of a thief's heart" and wanted to save the country. He often asked him to meet, but only once. After the meeting, he took the initiative to send: I think I like you very much. Give me a few more days to reconsider our relationship. A few days later, he thought it was better to separate, but they still kept in touch.
The main emotional problem between them is that the students are too strong and often ignore their feelings. So, to save this kind of people, you always do more than you say. When he accepts your kindness, you should give him more affirmation and confidence, let him feel your sincerity, and it will be easier to recover.
I know you in the face of recovery alone when the pain and powerlessness, you need to stumble to run to him. It doesn't matter. With us, we will take care of you on this hard starting line. Please click the green button to add a tutor (click and copy the tutor number, and add it in the search). We are willing to answer your doubts anytime and anywhere, just to help you and give you the strength to persist.
When you broke up, he was extremely unstable and even verbally abused you. After breaking up, RAHI deleted all your contact information and expressed strong dissatisfaction and rejection to you. All in all, your breakup can be described as tragic, and your ex is mostly irritable. There is also a hidden type of irritability, may break up, did not have too many quarrels. But your obsession triggered his fierce reaction. The more entangled you are, the more disgusting he is and the more cruel he is.
Recovery method: in fact, there are also ways to recover this type. The premise is that you have to have a good attitude construction, can't let him affect your mood. Irascible ex, when breaking up, really hate you very much, and it's reasonable to be cruel to you. Therefore, in the face of irascible predecessors, the recovery should be carried out from the following aspects:
(1) Chill your relationship and give him time to recover.
The benefits of cold treatment, can reduce the concentration of his conflict with you, and ease the irritable mood. If you don't give him time to entangle directly, it will end in failure. When he gradually digests the negative emotions towards you, you can take the initiative to contact him.
(2) Use cold reading to chat and let the other party trust you.
The key to cold reading is to listen to each other's ideas and give positive response in time. This will shorten your distance and increase your favor concentration.
(3) Use psychological suggestion.
Inadvertently talk about the good memories of the past, awaken each other's memory of the sweet past, so as to slowly approach you. Broken feelings, the heart is not willing, you can not control their emotions, try to save him, but no effect, but let him more and more tired of you. If you are troubled by similar difficult emotional problems, now click the green button to add a tutor (click and copy the tutor number, and add it in the search). I will dig deep into the problems between you according to your situation. After professional analysis, I will provide you with proper guidance and service suggestions. If you have any emotional problems, you can chat with a tutor in private.
This is a difficult type to retrieve. If you use the constellation, it's probably boss level Virgo. It must have been thoughtful of him to break up with you. He will not say you are not, will apologize to you, said he did not good enough. If he has said these words, he is basically ready to give up the relationship. Before you know it, he has analyzed your future, thought about your contradictions, and protected you